If you're the type of woman who's a little reserved, but then comes out of her shell once you warm up to someone, this is for you
Dating and meeting your soulmate doesn't require you to change your personality. And we definitely don't want you to change anything about you because someone is looking for YOU exactly as you are
The dating narrative can make it sound like you need to be an extrovert "putting yourself out there" and making the first move all the time in order to meet a committed man
That's not true
What you need is to be in the process of meeting people where they are also interested in meeting you
This is one way dating apps can be an amazing tool
Everyone on the app has given consent to be approached about the possibility of a romantic relationship
A dating app gives you the option to feel a person out via text, phone or video call before taking the leap to meet in person
For a naturally reserved woman, this is a gift
All you then need to make it work is the ability to use dating apps in a way that works for you
Learning what works or doesn't work on a profile
-How to not overthink the profiles of men you're evaluating
-How to make effective decisions about swiping left or right
-How to not personalize the actions of others on the apps
-How to stay out of rejection-dejection
-How to not attach too quickly or create fantasies based on a one-dimensional view of a man
-How to tell when he’s The One
-Creating a plan for moving the relationship from first contact to full commitment
-And for IRL dating, being in social situations without feeling awkward
I guide clients on these and more when they work with me to find a partner that’s just right for them
All of these are practical steps you can take that don't require a change in your personality
You just keep taking the next right step in your dating journey - being yourself fully until you meet the one
Practical next steps keep you in the game until you connect with your person
Instead of overthinking, stalling, dropping in and out - which makes things take longer
I work with divorced women ready for their unique dating journey. If meeting your soulmate is on your "want to do" list, schedule a consult call here: