Dating Like a CEO: Empowering Divorced Women Over 40
Are you truly in charge of your dating experience after divorce? Or do you feel like relationships "just happen to you?" Finding YOUR PERSON requires being highly intentional about how you date, especially when you're starting fresh after 40.
Taking Control of Your Dating Journey
Dating after divorce demands being conscious of exactly who and what you want in a relationship. This means:
Intentionally filtering who gets access to your time and heart
Not settling for someone just because they're pursuing you
Avoiding the "I can make this work" mindset with incompatible matches
The Danger of Passive Dating
Waiting to be found makes you the prey in the dating world. When you're passive:
You become a sitting duck for any man who decides he wants you
You get chosen instead of doing the choosing for yourself
You risk wasting time with low-effort men who aren't aligned with your values
Date Like the CEO You Are
When you're CEO material in your professional life, you don't entertain every job offer. So why do it in dating?
You wouldn't:
Meet with fast food recruiters when you're qualified for executive positions
Be swayed by promises of quick rewards
"Give someone a chance" out of politeness when they're clearly not a match
Instead, you'd strategically position yourself where other high-quality professionals gather. The same applies to dating after divorce - it's about asking the right dating questions to determine compatibility early.
Intentional Dating Strategy
Successful dating after 40 means deliberately surrounding yourself with an abundance of potential "hell yes" partners, not passively waiting for whoever comes along.
When you approach dating intentionally, you:
Put yourself in the environments where quality potential partners spend time
Become your own matchmaker
Create your own opportunities
Learn when you're truly ready to date again
Recognize and avoid low-effort men who won't meet your standards
Take charge of your romantic future just as you would your career. By dating like a CEO, you gift yourself the opportunity to create the fulfilling relationship you deserve.