Soooooo…your dating app queue is currently showing all the wrong types of men
Too far away
Not compatible
Weird
Scammers
That definitely happens
I don’t know anyone who’s used a dating app and hasn’t had the same queue at one time or another
It isn’t fun, but letting it drag you into despair and overwhelm isn’t necessary
You don’t have to entertain the super scary thoughts
Thinking all your chances are gone
Thinking you won’t ever meet a guy
Thinking it’s hopeless and you’ll be alone forever
Thinking no one will love the real you
And I know it all feels true
But it’s just the default thinking that surfaces when you don’t have your goal YET
When you haven’t met a goal, your brain’s default choice of thoughts is that it will NEVER happen
The uncoached brain is like a kid on a road trip saying, “Are we there yet, are we there yet?” a thousand times on the way
Just because you’re not there yet has no bearing on when you will achieve your goal
You could meet someone TODAY
Letting the brain run all over creates a high pressure, desperate, and frustrated attitude that eventually spirals down into despair
If you don’t resolve this rollercoaster will create an attitude that comes out in how you engage with the dating process
It shows up in the way you communicate with men and the way you talk about yourself
It dampens your creativity and zest for life
It shows up in the way you connect and the way you build relationships
You get into tunnel vision and forget that you already have so much life to live and you can enjoy TODAY
You look around your very tiny bubble and think “there’s no one out there” - forgetting just how big the world is and how you couldn’t exhaust all the relationship opportunities that exist if you tried
Those thoughts make the dating process an awful experience
They become a self-fulfilling prophecy that end with you sitting on the couch in your pajamas every weekend
You get so disappointed that you take yet another 3 month break
Instead of embracing the life you DO have and making the most of every opportunity
But...
I’d like you to know that you’re not alone
Everyone experiences this toddler brain at some level
Like I said, it’s the brain's default mode
It interprets everything that happens as a reason to go into fight, flight or freeze mode
It throws a tantrum when it doesn’t get its way
I’m very familiar with my own brain and have multiple tools and techniques to help you tame it
So that your thoughts and emotions support you all the way into the arms of Mr. Right
In my coaching program, we deal with this issue when it comes around - and it can come round a few times
It’s the mindset part of the program that keeps your thoughts moving along the track of success instead of the track of despair
I teach you what to expect at each phase of the dating process and how to approach it with a powerful mindset
When your mental strength is up and can keep up your strategic optimism, you are able to stay on track
You have the motivation and engagement to keep meeting and dating without being too focused on the challenges of each phase
You get to see that each phase has its own characteristics and they are all just stepping stones on the journey
Working with me helps you solidify and stay focused your WHY for the relationship you want and gets you fortified for the journey ahead
I coach you every week to keep your belief, energy and attitude at 100% the whole way as you work the custom action plan that we create specifically for dating success in your unique situation
You get to enjoy your amazing life now while working on the life you want
Because you’re beautiful, capable and 100% lovable already
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