How to Get Out of Survival Mode and Create Your Best Life After Divorce

January 17, 2023 Sade Curry

After my divorce, I was told I needed to wait a year for every 3 years I was married to heal “properly” before dating (that would have been 6 years!)

Thank God I didn’t listen to that nonsense

And you don’t have to either

If you find yourself endlessly getting ready to be ready to do the thing, this is for you

You don’t need to wait until you “have it all together” to create your own extraordinary life after divorce

And you definitely don’t need to wait for the perfect time to meet your partner and create an extraordinary love after divorce

All you need is to raise your hand and decide that you’re READY

And be done putting off what you want into the black hole of some future date

You can leave survival / hiding mode behind and lean into your potential for life you’ve always known was possible for you

You can let go of the relationship patterns that keep you in step with unavailable friends and partners

You can let the good in, let the stress go and learn to receive support from safe people

You can do work you love with people you enjoy

You can let your ambitious side out of the closet and go for it

You can get healthy, make new friends, change how you parent

You can date and find a healthy long-term relationship

It starts with deciding what you want and deciding that you’re ready to make it happen

Yes, you might need to learn some things like how to:

💛 Get out of Survival Mode

💛 Change old habits and patterns

💛 Find the time

💛 Stop overthinking and talking yourself out of your goals

💛 Step out with confidence

💛 Take Action

💛 Work through all the feelings

💛 Stick with it

💛 Get it Done

You won’t lean into the action until you’ve made a solid internal commitment to make the change

When you’re truly committed, you feel the conviction on your inside

You know that you’re done settling and you’re doing the thing no matter what

You see yourself and your future differently and you stop letting the past hold you back

If you’re committed to create your own step-by-step journey for making your post-divorce life a reality, you’ll want to come to my 3-Day Workshop, How to Create an Extraordinary Life and Love after Divorce: January 24 - 26 at 7pm CST

💟DAY 1: HOW TO ACHIEVE ANY GOAL (NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU FAILED BEFORE)

💟DAY 2: HOW TO CHANGE OLD PATTERNS & HABITS FOREVER

💟DAY 3: 5 ESSENTIAL STEPS FOR DATING AFTER DIVORCE