It’s human to be nervous about stepping out of your comfort zone.
Being in a toxic relationship creates anxiety
Divorce creates anxiety
And dating will trigger a reasonable anxiety about changing things up.
Our brains like to stick with what feels comfortable and familiar.
That’s what kept humans alive in caveman days.
You worry that dating will upset the peaceful balance you have right now.
That's normal
It’s smart to want to be sure that you won't trust the wrong person too much and too soon.
I thought this too, and I know that the most important part of dating after divorce is this:
It's safe to date when you have a SIMPLE dating process that helps you navigate it all.
You need a process where you meet men, vet them and make decisions
So that you can:
Date men who are transparent
Who are willing to let you get to know them
Who invite you to their friends’ Superbowl party
Who bring you to the Memorial Day BBQ
My process teaches you to ask the tough questions in a way that brings you closer
You learn to slow the relationship down until you are certain you are ready to without chasing them away
This helps you step out of your comfort zone without the relationship anxiety
Because you learn the skills to both keep yourself safe AND get your new partner
I'm teaching these and other doable steps in my 3-day workshop: How to Create an Extraordinary Life & Love After Divorce
January 24 - 26 at 7pm CT / 8pm ET / 5pm PT
Here’s what we’ll cover:
💟DAY 1: HOW TO ACHIEVE ANY GOAL (NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU FAILED BEFORE)
💟DAY 2: HOW TO CHANGE OLD PATTERNS & HABITS FOREVER
💟DAY 3: 5 ESSENTIAL STEPS FOR DATING AFTER DIVORCE
Register here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYqc-irqjooG91bDZ9CCl6-Zyy-kPVdYtk6