You Don't Need 114573 Things to Date Successfully After Divorce
There's so much you're told to do to meet a new partner after divorce:
Lose some weight, get a new wardrobe. Make sure you're fully healed. Lower your standards because the dating pool after divorce is small. Be more feminine and don't intimidate men. Ask for what you want. Don't be too needy and don't be desperate. Don't be too picky. Don't settle. Give them a chance. Don't chase. Put yourself out there. Don't focus on having a partner.
Confusing much?
A Different Approach to Dating After Divorce
The women who work with me have a completely different experience.
They learn that they only need a few things to create all the dates they need and to connect with their ideal partner.
They learn to find lots of men who are compatible with their remarkable life - right there in their city.
They learn to connect with them without anxiety.
They learn to observe, evaluate and choose the right One - not settling for low-effort men.
Essential Dating Questions to Ask
When dating after divorce, the right questions change everything:
Does this person's actions match their words?
Do they make consistent effort to see me?
Are they emotionally available?
Do they respect my boundaries?
Can they communicate about difficult topics?
Creating a Dating Process That Works For You
When you master these simple dating skills, you are able to date in a way that fits YOU.
Your dating process matches your life. It builds itself around your family and your schedule.
You are able to spend time with good men, have great conversations and experience romance.
And at the end, you get to choose the One who is right for you when you are ready.
You are able to find companionship, create happy moments, spend time with someone and share life's adventures.
This is the impact of getting into a dating process that works, using it, practicing and getting coaching support to customize and improve it so it works FOR YOU.
Real Success in Dating After Divorce
This is what I offer my clients when they work with me. Like Bee, who met her amazing, exclusive boyfriend after working with me for 4 months. She went on 15 first dates, had 1 breakup and then met the One.
Listen to her story here: https://sadecurry.com/datingafterdivorcepodcast/2022/9/26/client-success-story-with-bee
Yes, the process takes some work, but when you only want the best in your new partner and want an extraordinary relationship, the investment is worth it.
This is the power of a dating process that works for women over 40 navigating the dating world after divorce.