The fear of intimacy after divorce is a very real issue
When you've been hurt that deeply, the last thing you want is to get hurt again
So you find ways to keep your distance from the risk of making a commitment
You settle for basic romantic relationships with non-committal partners
Someone to fill the space, knowing you won’t ever have to sign the dotted line
Long-distance relationships with no plans to move closer
You dabble half-heartedly off and on the apps
Just something to entertain yourself and pass time with a few text conversations
This way, you never have to address just how stuck you still are in past hurts
If things don’t work out, it’s because of all the weirdos out there
You get busy with keeping life comfortable and safe
Every time the desire for more comes up, you squelch it
And over time that squelching muscle becomes a habit
Because you've given your brain so much power to suppress your desires for a relationship
It makes everything about dating appear excessively difficult
Swiping your finger 2 inches on your phone feels as exhausting as hauling bricks
You notice the pattern repeating but can’t quite seem to place your finger on what’s wrong
Listen, meeting your partner and creating a loving relationship isTHE BEST container for personal growth
A vehicle for bringing up all the junk and getting it out of the way so that you show up to engage and enjoy the very best life has to offer
It’s time to get off the sidelines and get in the game
I can help you create a vibrant life where you make progress on the experiences you want to have
The skills are embedded in my coaching process