Avoid this Dating Mistake
A big mistake that women make that keeps them from meeting the partner that they want
Have you ever fallen for a man who was nice and REALLY interested in you?
Then later you found out you didn't have anything in common and the relationship was definitely not a fit?
And then you had to go through the worry that you were being mean and hurting him when you had to break it off?
And you stayed in the relationship for months or even years to see if it would get better?
You're not alone. This happens way too often to too many divorced women over 40, especially when dating after divorce feels overwhelming and uncertain. This pattern makes the dating journey last years instead of months.
When Dating Goes Wrong: The Compatibility Challenge
The truth is that many men you will talk to in the dating world don't have a clear idea of what they are looking for.
They want a relationship with a woman they feel good around.
So they want to keep dating you because it feels good.
Most people aren't thinking about long-term compatibility when they date, even though asking the right dating questions would reveal this mismatch early on.
Even though compatibility is a HUGE factor for successful relationships.
Which leaves it up to you to check if a person is actually compatible with you...
Whether they want to pursue a relationship isn't the issue.
Are You Ready to Date the Right Way?
The big mistake is thinking that a man is right for you because he's interested in you and wants a commitment. This is especially true when dating after divorce when attention can feel validating.
It seems counter-intuitive, but…just because a man pursues you doesn't mean he's right for you.
A man is only right for you when he's right for you.
When asking yourself "when am I ready to date?", consider whether you know what you truly want and need in a partner.
Beware the Low-Effort Man
Many women waste months or years with low-effort men who are interested but not invested in creating a meaningful connection. They pursue you, but don't actually work to understand your needs or values.
This is why I have created the Core Values Dating Blueprint to help you attract men who match YOU.
I've designed this training specifically to boil down years of helping women into exercises you can apply to see immediate results with your dates.
Transform Your Dating Experience
When you apply your Core Values Dating Blueprint to: ◾Swiping ◾Texting ◾Conversations ◾In-person interactions ◾Dating decisions
You will be well on your way to the unique relationship that feels loving, nourishing and fulfilling to you.
You'll go beyond a checklist to understanding what your best match feels like in person.
You'll know what dating questions to ask that reveal true compatibility early on.
You'll see clearly when a man is not a match.
You'll attract the type of man you want because you will communicate what he needs to see to say, "I have got to talk to her!"
Say Goodbye to Dating Mistakes
This training puts an end to: ◾Choosing "blah" relationships with nice guys who aren't a fit ◾Attracting men who aren't a match ◾Being overlooked by the men you do like ◾Second-guessing your dating decisions
It's time to show the dating world who you are. It starts with the Core Values Dating Blueprint.