Dating After Healing Relationship Anxiety with Chenoa Murphy
My guest on the podcast this week is Chenoa Murphy.
In this episode, Chenoa tells us the story of the childhood trauma, emotional, mental and verbal abuse she faced which led to low self esteem. She tells us how this influenced her choice to marry her first husband. She shares her struggles with relationship anxiety and how coaching with Coach Sade and other resources helped.
You’ll walk away from this episode with greater assurance that you can find a good man.
What You’ll Learn:
What she did differently for her second marriage.
How she began to know that she had relationship anxiety.
How her coaching experience with Coach Sade helped her to deal with anxious thoughts.
What she did to create her love story by expressing her authentic self.
How she was able to trust herself to make a choice for her second marriage.
How she navigated a long distance relationship.
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Featured on the Show:
Chenoa was born and raised in Memphis, TN. She started the violin at age 3 and was trained in and completed the Suzuki Violin method. Chenoa earned a Bachelor and Master of Music degrees from the University of Cincinnati College- Conservatory of Music and has since performed in 6 countries and 38 states of the United States. She has taught violin and viola as well as been a member of several symphony orchestras in her area. Her opinions on race can be found on CNN, NPR Illinois, and Huffington Post.
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Q&A: Should I Stop Talking to This Man?
In this episode I answer a listener question about how to make the decision to keep texting, calling or dating a person.
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Dating After a High Conflict Divorce with Stacey Mendelson
My guest on the podcast this week is Stacey Mendelson.
In this episode, Stacey explains what a high-conflict divorce is and shares her personal journey of how she faced a high-conflict divorce and how she now helps women who are going through a high conflict divorce.
She walks us through her journey of dating again and how she got remarried, as well as shares her fears of getting remarried and how she overcame them.
You’ll walk away from this episode understanding how to deal with a high conflict ex and believing that you can overcome fear in a high conflict divorce and enjoy life after divorce.
What You’ll Learn:
What a high-conflict divorce is.
The obstacles that arise in a high conflict divorce.
How to understand the difference between dangers and drama in a high-conflict divorce.
Going from afraid to amused when faced with a high conflict divorce and refusing panic.
Moving from anger to calm confidence.
Letting go of shame over things that happened that you were not responsible for.
If you want to start making serious progress in your dating journey TODAY, get my free Dating After Divorce course and workbook. Click here to sign up!
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You will get an assessment of where you are, what’s been in your way, and what you need to do to achieve everything you want. Click here to sign up for the consultation call.
Featured on the Show:
Stacey Mendelson is the owner of Lifeline Coaching and Consulting. She is a certified life coach who works exclusively with women gong through high-conflict divorce. Stacey is the guide that will help you efficiently navigate the journey with less pain, less expense by teaching you everything you need to know.
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Q&A: When He Doesn't Initiate
In this episode I answer a listener question about what to do when the person you are seeing doesn't initiate contact or dates with you.
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Love Versus Romance
It's critical to know the difference between Romance and Love. Love is non-negotiable for a relationship to be healthy, meaningful and long-lasting. Romance is awesome, but negotiable and looks different for different people. You want both.
Your ideal relationship will have a firm foundation of love with the right amount of romance mixed in.
In this episode I discuss the differences between romance and love and how to use that information to choose a healthy, long-lasting partner.
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Client Success: Finding the Man of Your Dreams with Melissa Cameron
12 years after her divorce, Melissa had had six relationships, but no partner who was the right match for her. In spite of great success in her business and work as a relationship coach, she wasn't able to translate that success into her own love live.
Now, four months into working with Sade Curry, Melissa is in a beautiful relationship and working on commitment with a man she met by opening up all the opportunities for love to come into her life. Listen to this episode to find out how she did it.
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You will get an assessment of where you are, what’s been in your way, and what you need to do to achieve everything you want. Click here to sign up for the consultation call.
Featured on the Show:
Melissa Cameron is a Relationship Coach who helps men and women when they believe they are at the beginning of the end of their relationship; She helps them get back to understanding and love, then they make a decision to stay or go.
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Website - www.melissajanecameron.com
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Creating Friendship and Connection with Jewel Hohman
My guest on the podcast this week is Friendship and Connection Coach, Jewel Hohman.
There is a loneliness epidemic in the world today. In this special Valentine’s Day episode, Jewel shares her journey and expertise to intentionally create friendship and connection in her life when she was experiencing loneliness.
What You’ll Learn:
Why an over-focus on romantic connection can be damaging and painful
How to create a new network and community when you are starting over from scratch
Why connection with friends and non-romantic partners is important
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You will get an assessment of where you are, what’s been in your way, and what you need to do to achieve everything you want. Click here to sign up for the consultation call.
Featured on the Show:
Jewel Hohman is a friendship expert and a professionally certified coach. She helps people stop overthinking their relationships and feel confident being themselves, so that they can create the deep friendships they have been craving. Jewel is on a mission to end the loneliness epidemic by having people take back their fundamental needs of connection and community.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jewel.hohman/
Website: https://www.jewelhohman.com
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Creating A Dating Profile That Actually Works
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Dating by Being 100% Yourself with Kenya Battle
My guest on the podcast this week is Kenya Battle.
In this episode, Kenya shares about how she met her second husband while being herself 100%. Kenya has a loud, boisterous and playful personality that some might have thought would be “too much” when interacting with other people. But her unique personality is exactly what attracted her husband to her at their very first meeting.
Prepare to be inspired and learn how to play full out with who you are, and to stop muting and editing yourself on your dating journey, so that you attract that partner who is perfect for you!
What You’ll Learn from this Episode:
The importance of keeping up the belief that there is someone out there for you
How showing up 100% as herself was the key to dating success
What having a good wing woman can do for you
How she nailed evaluating her husband’s behavior when they were dating so that she could safely commit to him
Why taking the time to have the difficult conversations before commitment is so important
How she was able to recover when the relationship moved too fast
How she knew when to go exclusive with her husband.
How not thinking the generalizing thoughts “All men are ________” helped her attract her husband
If you want to start making serious progress in your dating journey TODAY, get my free Dating After Divorce course and workbook. Click here to sign up!
If you want me to coach you one-on-one to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your perfect partner, sign up for a coaching consultation call with me.
You will get an assessment of where you are, what’s been in your way, and what you need to do to achieve everything you want. Click here to sign up for the consultation call.
Featured on the Show:
Kenya Battle is the Chief Treble Maker at Kenya's Keys, where she provides voice and piano instruction designed to help you unleash your inner Superstar. She also helps private music teachers find less hustle and more harmony in their music business.
With over 20 years of experience aiding 11,000+ students, Kenya is a renowned expert in unleashing the inner musical superstar in both adults and kids. Her other accomplishments include running her business while serving as a U.S. soldier, becoming only the second woman in her family to graduate college, and writing and self-publishing 2 best-selling books.
When she’s not amplifying the voices of the next generation or decolonizing music instruction, you can find Kenya penning songs for the everyday entrepreneur who wants to use melodic prose to convey who they are and what they stand for.
Kenya Battle’s Music teacher mentorship: https://keyofeasy.com/
Kenya Battle’s Music Lessons: https://kenyaskeys.com/
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Raising Your Dating Standards with Jeneffer Joe
In this episode, I have a special guest: My friend, client and fellow life coach, Jeneffer Joe. Jen got married at a vulnerable time in her life - she had just lost a parent and chose marriage to fill the gap. Listen in to hear her divorce, dating and personal growth story.
We cover:
How we underestimate the work that successful dating requires
How she tried everything including a matchmaker, without results
How valuing the thinking of others over your own wisdom prolongs the journey and how expressing her true self was the key to success
How she is now going on more dates and meeting higher quality men - all while traveling the world
Jeneffer is a life and business coach to new coaches. She helps clients break into the coaching industry by teaching them to own their unique gifts and sign their first paying clients in just weeks. She is on a mission to help more coaches go from theory to practice by creating businesses that serve at a high level.
Connect with Jeneffer:
Website: https://livingoutgoals.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenjoecoaching
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livingoutgoals/
Coaching Superpower Quiz: https://livingoutgoals.com/whats-your-innate-coaching-superpower/
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Dating and Building Self-Trust with Natalie Nielsen
This week in the Remarriage Series, I'm delighted to bring you my friend and fellow coach, Natalie Nielsen who is happily married after divorce.
Natalie Nielsen is a wife and mom to 2 kids and 4 bonus kids. She went through a divorce as a stay-at-home mom to toddlers and was single for 9 years. During that time she learned to heal, trust again, and built a relationship with herself which led her to finding her incredible husband. Natalie also went from being a SAHM to a college student as a single mom, to landing a good paying HR Corporate job to Entrepreneur.
Natalie is now a Career and Business Coach for Single Moms using her certified coaching skills and past HR recruiting skills to teach single moms exactly how to land a Career that gives them the fulfillment, freedom, income and life they want.
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IG: https://www.instagram.com/natalienielsencoaching
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The Visibility Formula
This episode covers the Visibility Formula. This is a concept that I teach my clients to help them show up in the world in a way that connects them to their potential partner or to people who could introduce them to their partner.
We often go through the world in an unconscious way - not realizing that where and how we show up impacts the results that we get. This episode teaches you to audit your level of visibility so that you can level up and connect with your partner.
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Dating, Divorce and My Holiday Update
Dating , Divorce and the Holidays
What do the holidays look like for you? Are you actively dating or do you drop everything because the calendar says so?
Are you in the middle of processing divorce grief or being without your children on special days?
Are you hurt by all the Holiday cheer around you, thinking everyone around you has it better and you're all alone and things will never get better?
The holidays do not have to be a secretly miserable time for you. Join me for this episode as I share my own twists and turns over the last 7 years of dealing with the holidays during and after a divorce - and the surprising twist that Thanksgiving 2021 has brought my family.
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Loving Your Past Self
When you think back to your past, your time within your old relationships, and choices you made as a young person, how to you see yourself?
Are you angry and full of regrets?
Are you disappointed in yourself?
Do you question your ability to create new things because the past was so hard?
If your view of your past self is negative, you may be trying to create new relationships and goals with the baggage of not trusting yourself and feeling shame because you have left some of the best parts of yourself in the past.
If you want to 100x your self-confidence, listen to this podcast episode.
What you'll learn:
How to create compassion for who you were in the marriage
How to change your perspective to remove shame and pain
How to retrieve the best parts of your past self
Join me on Episode #40: Loving Your Past Self and discover the strengths and gifts that can catapult you into your best post-divorce life!
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On Being Pursued
Have you ever worried about "being pursued" enough? Or whether or not you're breaking the "dating rules?"
In this episode, Sade discusses how the rules keep you from having the clarity required to properly see the person in front of you and how that hurts your dating journey.
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Dating and Creating Community with Jennifer Major
Today's guest, Jennifer Major has such beautiful and warm energy. She shares with us the challenges of maintaining friendships after divorce, getting back on track after falling out of alignment, and how rekindling an old friendship led to remarrying. She explains to us the power of authenticity, being comfortable in who you are, and showing up in your relationship. She reminds us that getting back into alignment doesn't have to be done alone, community is also important.
Tune in to this week’s episode of the #RemarriageClub with Jennifer Major, a holistic organization and productivity specialist. Jennifer helps women and business owners who feel overwhelmed by the chaos in their lives and homes, are tired of being "busy', and are ready to make long-lasting changes for the life and business they really want. Her mission is to help you have your own back through supportive systems built around your unique values and needs. Jennifer believes we all deserve clutter-free spaces and more time for naps and money.
Jennifer encourages women to come in as they are, mess and all. Along your journey, you will receive guidance, celebration, silliness, and support when things feel hard because ten minutes can change everything. She has created a free Facebook community where you will find free weekly live trainings and support from the community.
Here's What You Will Learn:
How Jennifer uses her gift to create community
How she learned to relieve herself from the pressures of dating and having fun
Why using dating is important for gathering data
Refining what is important to you and being okay with compromising
The number one way to getting yourself back into alignment while dating
Connect with Jennifer Major:
Website
Work with Sade:
Get Sade's Free Training: How to Know When He's the One
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Dating with Permission to Create the Love You Want with Laura Swartzbaugh
Today I am speaking with life coach to life coaches, Laura Swartzbaugh on her story of how she found her second husband through eHarmony. She shares with us the process it took for her to work on herself and her own worthiness. One of the valuable messages she reminds us is to go for what you want out of life and feel okay with it.
Laura Swartzbaugh is a life coach who offers full-time coaching for life coaches. She is certified in Life and Weight Loss coaching from the Life Coach School. She received her Ph.D. from the University of Minnesota and a Master’s in Educational Leadership from Roosevelt University. Laura’s mission is to help coaches continue fulfilling their purpose with a clear mind and correcting hindering beliefs by cleaning up what she calls Coach Brain.
Listen in this week on the #RemarriageClub as Laura and I discuss her journey and everything she’s learned from life, her previous marriage, and her clients.
Here’s What You Will Learn:
How Laura transitioned from education to coaching
How to say no to the “good” guys and not dating out of pity
The Key indicators of knowing when someone is your “person”
How she manifested her husband by creating a vision board
Connect With Laura:
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Work with Sade:
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Dating and Staying True to a Growth Mindset with Tracey Forde
Are you willing to walk away to allow your potential mate to heal? Listen in today on the #RemarriageClub as I interview Tracey Forde on how she found her husband after marrying twice and what it took for her to be willing to walk away and continue living her life to the fullest. We discuss being intentional about dating by knowing your wants and needs and enforcing your boundaries.
Tracey Forde is a trauma healing and mindset coach for high-achieving black women. She helps black women who are continuously striving to better their lives, whether they are c-suite executives or stay-at-home moms. Tracey’s goal is to help her client reconnect with the missing pieces as she coaches them through their shadow work.
Here’s What You Will Learn:
How doing the inner-work is necessary for having a healthy relationship with yourself and with your mate
How Tracey found love after experiencing two divorces
Why focusing on the things you enjoy and spending time with family and friends is important in between dating
Recognizing trauma when it shows up in your relationships and how it places expectations that your partner may not be able to meet
Being willing to walk away to allow your mate to heal
Connect With Tracey:
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Work with Sade:
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Dating and Growing Into Your Highest Self with Nicole Thompson
Creating your own experiences, strengthening your self-awareness, and understanding are just a few of the things our guest, Nicole Thompson will share with us this week on the #RemarriageClub series. This will be perfect for you if you are exiting a relationship and need to evaluate who you are and the people around you. Create peace within yourself and your marriage by reframing your mind and making clear decisions.
Nicole Thompson is a Life & Mindset Coach from Jamaica. She coaches singers whom she helps create their inner calm, confidence, and joy on and off the stage. She has released her own solo album and is a trained and certified voice teacher. She thrives on helping singers bring themselves to the mic.
Here's What You Will Learn:
How Nicole is building a successful coaching business for singers
The moment she realized how having a good friend helped her become a better person and made her more open to correction
Why therapy is the best thing she’s done prior to remarrying and what she has learned going into a new relationship
How to take responsibility for your contributions in a relationship
Connect With Nicole:
Schedule A Call With Nicole
Work with Sade:
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Dating and Rebuilding Self-Trust with Andrea Giles
If healing after infidelity is a part of your story, you're going to love what my next guest, Andrea Giles has to share and how you too can do the work even while developing a relationship. Listen in as Andrea shares with us a unique story that leads to growing in love while healing.
Andrea Giles is a wife and mom of 11 who is now coaching to help individuals sort out the confusion, grief, fear, and frustration that comes when infidelity occurs in their marriage.
After taking a life-coaching program, she knew she had to guide others through their own trials. Andrea's aim is to advocate for her clients as they learn to use their minds to build self-confidence and heal themselves.
Join us this week on the #RemarriageClub as Andrea and I discuss her healing journey and how it’s possible to have peace where you are the validation you needed all along and you can begin to receive everything you’ve dreamt of.
Here's What You Will Learn:
Why it is important to ask the tough questions in the early stages of dating
How being a single mother does not lessen your chances of finding a great man
Why dating is less about time and more about alignment.
Learn more about Andrea Giles:
Website
Work with Sade:
Get Sade's Free Training: How to Know When He's the One
Book A Consult Call: Sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment