3 Ways to Fail at Dating After Divorce
There are only 3 ways to fail on your dating journey when you're ready to date again:
1. Never get started. 2. Give up. 3. Marry the wrong man.
Actually, you already handled #3, done and dusted with the divorce. That's one milestone already behind you!
As long as you are in the dating arena, you have every opportunity to succeed at finding love. But when is the right time to step back in? The question of "when am I ready to date" haunts many women over 40.
But if the dating arena feels like a battlefield, and you keep coming away with emotional scars from low-effort men, you'll either give up or settle.
And if you think you don't have the inner capacity to navigate dating after divorce, you'll never get started.
And if you are one of those people who truly wants a life companion - someone to walk through life with you and enjoy moments of connection with - then not starting, giving up or settling is not an option for you.
The solution to this dilemma is to date using a process that helps you develop the emotional resilience you need to see the dating journey through. This begins with knowing the right dating questions to ask, both yourself and potential partners.
When you work with me, the challenging parts of dating become a non-issue because we shift the way you look at them.
Men on the apps stop being a problem because you know exactly how to stay away from the terrible ones (especially those low-effort men who expect you to do all the emotional work) without swiping left on everybody.
You stop having dud dates. And if one does slip through, it won't bother you because you'll know exactly where the problem was and how to fix it.
You'll release over-attachment forever because you'll create a pipeline of wonderful guys to choose from, armed with the perfect dating questions to ask that reveal character and compatibility quickly.
You'll know how to read dating scenarios objectively instead of beating yourself up for sabotaging your chances. Dating after divorce doesn't have to be complicated when you have the right guidance.