The Dating Playbook: Finding Love After Divorce
Are you ready to start dating after divorce? Many divorced women over 40 find themselves asking, "when am I ready to date?" It's completely normal to feel uncertain about rejoining the dating world, especially when you've been out of it for years.
Creating Your Love Story After Divorce
It's really easy to create an amazing love story when you know:
Who you are - a solid personal identity and confidence
What you want - a clear picture of who your future partner is
How to get there - an effective process for meeting him
Most of my students know that they are amazing. They know that they want a fabulous relationship they can be proud of. But the steps to get that relationship feels out of their hands.
This is where my work with them as their coach makes all the difference.
Essential Dating Questions to Ask Yourself
I help them resolve those subtle gaps, questions and doubts that hold them back:
Why is finding love taking me so long?
How do I find the time to date?
How can I be sure I'm ready for a relationship?
Where do I go to meet people who are a good fit?
How will dating impact my children?
What if my ex creates a problem?
How do I get my mind on board and stop procrastinating and being anxious about dating?
Why do I keep getting distracted?
How do I prevent rejection and heartbreak?
How do I stop wasting time with the low-effort man?
How can I be sure when I've found the one?
How do I get him to commit?
How do I ask the hard dating questions?
Moving Beyond Dating Doubts
If you haven't fully resolved these beliefs and doubts, you won't have the inner jet fuel that gets your dating journey off the ground and moving speedily toward true love.
You'll be inching forward and going around in circles, thinking about dating all the time, but never actually creating the relationship.
I want to help you get out of overthinking about dating after divorce into a life where a loving relationship is just a part of your new normal. Where the search is in your past and enjoying love is in your present.
You're amazing. You want an amazing relationship. Now, learn a process that helps you identify when you're ready to date and avoid the low-effort man, so you can find the love you deserve.