Logic + Intuition

Ever met the man who subtly implies he’s committed, but isn’t?

Who talks about rings and children, but never moves the relationship forward

The man who does the slow fade and ghosts

But what about the woman who believes him?

The woman who left the first date thinking “He’s the One” without knowing his middle name

The woman didn’t think that people could lie to her on purpose

The woman who thought the whirlwind romance was a good thing

The woman who overinvested and gave 100% to a man who was giving nothing

As hard as it is to admit, I was once that woman

Why do we fall so easily?

Because our brains are biologically designed to minimize effort

It’s goal is to conserve calories and follow the path of least resistance

The brain would rather watch a TV show than do a hard math problem

And it would rather latch to the first sign that a man is interested in you

Than do the hard work of slowing things down, asking awkward questions and getting to the truth

There’s no fun in that

It doesn’t feel romantic

And it feels very uncomfortable to the brain - which makes you feel like you’re doing it wrong

But you’re not

What’s missing in your approach to dating is a solid understanding of how your logic and intuition need to work together to lead you to a partner who is truly trustworthy, compatible with you and ready for a commitment

The brain either wants to make snap judgments and fill in the rest of the story on its own - leading to a failed relationship

Or it wants to stay in limbo forever and not make the decision - leading to no relationship

You want to stay out of those extremes by teaching your brain to use both short term and long term thinking at the same time

It takes some learning and some effort

But it works

If you’re ready to training your intuition to work hand-in-hand with logic to make the best relationship decisions, schedule your consult call today: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment