Listen to your inner wisdom
Every one of us has a powerful inner wisdom
That is one thing we take away from divorce
The sure knowledge that our inner voice that knows what’s good for us
Problem? Not listening to that inner wisdom
That's why we got into that first marriage and we’re tempted to not listen again when you start dating
Because we’re just not willing to be out here and be divorced, single and looking
We've been told there's something wrong with being divorced, single and looking
Like we've somehow failed at life and everyone is pointing at us
This interpretation of the divorced status sends you into a fight/flight/fawn/freeze response
If you believe that you are not lovable and acceptable as is
Or somehow less than because you’re currently single
Your lower brain will do whatever and by all means necessary to achieve the goal of changing your status from single to coupled - including ignoring the voice that’s telling you to slow down
Once your lower brain is on this life-saving mission, it will become unwilling to see the red flags in anyone who appears to be the solution
When your inner wisdom pops up with signs and signals to guide your dating journey, your lower brain will shut it down
Because it interprets everything as a sign that you won’t find a love and you will be left shamed and rejected to die alone by the river
Your lower brain tries to protect you from this horrible end by:
Ignoring the signs
Explaining stuff away
Changing your relationship standards
Try to change your partner by “asking for what you want”
Postpone breaking up to avoid the pain of heartbreak
All of this happens because you’re believing the panic story instead of your inner wisdom
Your inner wisdom knows that:
Your person is out there for you and would never present this red flag in your relationship
There’s 7 billion people on the planet and no shortage of healthy partners
You’ve survived divorce and now possess the resilience and inner strength to handle whatever comes up with a breakup
You are worthy and deserving of being loved and cared for at the highest level
I teach my clients to date from their inner wisdom
They learn to turn the voice of their intuition way up high
It’s the voice that helps the make the best decision when a red flag presents itself
And reminds them their extraordinary relationship is inevitable
It fuels belief in themselves and their ability to create love
They practice letting go of the thoughts that create self-doubt and live from their inner rock of resourcefulness, resilience and confidence
They approach every date with a sense of calm abundance not the pressure to please
If you want to date from this place, schedule a consult call with me here: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment
We will also discuss your strategy for dating online and offline, changing past relationship patterns and training your intuition to never choose wrong again
You will go from single and searching to fully committed in an effortless, fulfilling and connected relationship