Do you have unrealistic expectations of the dating journey?
Do you have unrealistic expectations of the dating journey?
It will keep you alone and lonely
This is when you think your journey will be nice and pristine
Not having to see profiles you don’t like and having to swipe left
Having every guy who comes your way be the perfect prince and not needing to experience the discomfort of saying “no”
Not having anyone say “no” to you
Having all your friends and family give you 100% approval for every dating move you make
Not having any feelings of awkwardness and or having to learn new skills
Not having to set a goal and work toward it
Having everyone you meet tell the truth about who they are and what they really want
Not getting ghosted
Not understanding how humans in the world really work
I get it
I was pretty shell-shocked my first month or two of dating after divorce
It was a whole new world
I had a couple of naive moments and for sure got ghosted
Until I put my big girl panties on and started dating like a real adult
No more whining and venting about the “dating scene”
I simply focused on creating my own individual journey
No more fairytale thinking or acting out of FOMO
No more falling in love too early
Or letting my brain recycle attachment issues
I learned to roll with what productive dating actually looked like
I figured out how to ask the difficult questions without killing the dating vibe
And then dating became this enjoyable activity
I started meeting higher quality men
It became like a video game and I stopped letting myself get stuck at the lower levels
And began scoring more points at higher levels
Until I scored the handsome hubby
It all happened because I stopped wishing and hoping and decided to engage with energy in the process of figuring it out once and for all
And not quitting until I did
This adult style of dating for true commitment is what I teach in my coaching program
I’m offering it to you today through a consultation call, where I help you:
locate the problem spots in your dating and the solutions to focus on
explain my process for dating with high standards and how to get out of the random “dating horror story” game everyone else is playing
identify any mindset issues from childhood or the divorce getting in the way
create a new, more effective strategy to get you into the relationship you want
Sometimes it's hard to fight for your own dreams when you've been stuck in the pattern of shrinking them down.
Change starts with one conversation...You'll tell me about your relationships, current struggles, and where you'd really like to be - and I'll share the blind spots and areas to focus that I see.
The impact of having space and time to talk to an expert about your goal is priceless, regardless of if we choose to work together further or not.
Today’s your day, schedule your call with me: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment