It's Time to Get Off the Dating Rollercoaster

Dating after Divorce

It's Time to Get Off the Dating Rollercoaster

You thought you had a connection with him

You went all in and came out burned again

Because you  wear your heart on your sleeve

You love with all your heart or not at all

And you get hurt, close up, shut down and hide away

Then you get tired of being alone

And you try again

Except...

You're still wearing your heart on your sleeve

So the vicious cycle continues

Getting burned a couple of times happens to everyone

But if that's ALL that's happening to you, something else is up

You're stuck in romance compulsion - all or nothing loving that is  slowing your journey to love waaay down

It's keeping you from finding a loving and trustworthy partner

It's time to break the cycle

Grow up out of the lovesick "tween" crushing stage and high school romance mode

And develop mature emotional boundaries

You can learn to enjoy a man's company without falling headlong

You don't have to intertwine your future with theirs

You can be open, warm and friendly while also being assertive and unattached

You can embody vulnerability, self-confidence and courage all at the same time

This is what adult dating looks and feels like

Having all the fun

Smiling, flirting and laughing

While asking the hard questions

Having the difficult conversations

And making the tough decision to only permit real, mature love in your life

I teach my students how to move out of Romance Compulsion into Confident Dating

If you're ready for a real kind of love, schedule a call with me: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment

Finding Love is a neutral goal

Being pursued

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