Dating After Divorce: No More Pressure
There's no need to put yourself under so much pressure to impress on a date. There's no need for the exact perfect outfit. No need to spend hours getting your hair and nails done. No need to whiten your teeth. Seriously.
When am I ready to date again? When you stop feeling like you need to transform yourself to be worthy of love.
Putting yourself under pressure to be "attractive enough" is why potential disappointment feels so crushing. You feel like there's something wrong with you and that's why it isn't working. No true partner was ever chosen for the perfection of her nails and hair.
All of this is masking the fact that you're just not certain you can be loved for you. This is the real work.
A deep-seated confidence that you don't need to prove you are loveable puts your dating results squarely in your control. And gives you the self-trust to recognize a low-effort man and shrug off the people who say you're not for them.
This is not a "fake-it-till-you-make-it" "pretend-you-don't-care-about-men" wall of armor to protect you from rejection. It's a confidence that feels as easy as your next breath because it's just who you are. And it's incredibly attractive to the person you're looking for.
Essential dating questions to ask yourself before your next date:
Am I showing up as my authentic self?
Am I trying to impress, or connect?
Would I want to date someone who doesn't appreciate the real me?
That's what you want to wear to your next date. Your very best, authentic, 100% unconditionally loveable self.
If you want that feeling of effortless ease on your dating journey after divorce, And real dates with people who see and appreciate you for who you are, it's available.
Schedule a call with me to start the process of shedding self-doubt and pressure, And stepping into confident dating results that actually work for divorced women over 40.