Investigate assumption

One of my responsibilities as a coach is to help you investigate the assumptions that are holding you back from finding and connecting with that partner who is aligned with you and your vision

One of those assumptions is “men all want younger women”

But…Do ALL men your age in your city ONLY want younger women?

Like, every single one?

Are there no men your age who subscribe to the same active lifestyle as you?

How do you know?

The fact that you haven’t met one doesn’t mean he doesn’t exist

It just means you haven’t met one yet

It might mean you haven’t looked in the right place

But it doesn’t mean he doesn’t exist

If you think he doesn’t exist, your brain will block him out of view because you’ve programmed it to only find the men who want younger women

It’s insane how that works

Your brain likes to think it knows all the things

It tells you a story instead of looking at the facts

It creates conclusions about the world from a tiny experience instead of facts and figures

Remember when you made your last car purchase and then suddenly you started seeing the same make, model and color everywhere?

They were always there, but now you see them because your brain is primed to notice them

Yes there's always going to be some men who want a younger woman or a casual relationship

That’s because humans come in all flavors

That in no way negates the fact that there are many, many men who are looking for someone just like you

Some men want a woman who has her own vision and profession going

A woman who knows who she is and what she wants

A woman who is ready to travel the world and check things off the bucket list

A woman who has had her children and isn’t wanting to start over

Those men are looking for you and you will find them once you stop staying preoccupied with the ones who aren’t a match

As your dating coach, my job is to remind you that the facts and figures are actually in your favor

I help you question these negative assumptions so that they don’t keep you frustrated and alone

I help you see what’s really happening when you’re dating and fix any challenges quickly and simply

Without the added pain of self-sabotaging thoughts like “all men want younger women”

Which is an interesting thought because women of all ages have this exact thought

And it’s keeping them stuck

If your mindset about dating needs a detox, I have a coaching program that gets you to the finish line in six months

We work on clarifying your relationship vision, so you can tell very early who’s right for you.

We create an action plan that has you connecting with and having IRL dates with men on your level every single week.

You will learn to overcome any social awkwardness, shyness and self-doubt on dates

You learn to evaluate your partners from reality and not rose-colored glasses.

You learn how to set boundaries and make loving decisions.

You learn how to nurture the right relationship all the way to commitment without rushing or self-sabotaging. We keep things moving by tracking your results and resolving any roadblocks.

When you work with me, it’s not just “inner healing” and navel gazing, I help you get out there connecting and dating without anxiety

You will see the finish line clearly and early because you start getting results right away

Book a call with me to get more details and let’s connect with that man who doesn’t want a “younger” woman

A man who wants a woman exactly like you

Schedule Your Call Here: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment