I bet you’ve heard that you need to understand how men think to get a man to commit to you.

That thinking sends you on a wild goose chase of trying to figure out every single guy you meet.

You buy a set of texts to use to catch the guy only to find he wasn't what you wanted after all.

And now you're starting over. Again.

First, men are not a monolith, so there's really no formula for figuring them out.

Second, you don't need to.

Remember when you were in your prior marriage and you spent all your time reading books, spinning out and trying to figure out your husband?

How did that work out?

Unhealthy relationships look like Person A thinking about Person A and Person B thinking about Person A

This is what the “understand men” philosophy teaches and it doesn't work.

It gets you twisting and turning yourself trying to control someone else’s actions

Truth is, the only person you need to understand is yourself.

What you want from life

Your vision

Your goals

Your wants and needs

Your preferences

All the things you left behind when you got married the first time

When you rediscover who you are, it's easy to find the man who matches you

The one who is looking for YOU right now, but can't find you because the real you isn't showing up

When you’re changing yourself to match what you’re “supposed to be” no one gets to see who you really are

If you know who you are, let your authentic self be seen

If you’re not sure you do, some self-discovery work might be in order

Either way, I can help you get there.

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