Do You Have Resistance to Dating?

Do you have resistance to dating seriously after your divorce?

You put it off and ignore the voice nudging you towards growth.

You think, “Someday I will date again, but eh, I don’t want to right now?”

If you have, did you ever ask yourself why?

Some people have amazing reasons for not dating:

“I’m still healing”

“I want to focus on my career”

“I want to focus on my kids”

For a while, I chose not to date because I wanted to focus on building financial stability after the divorce

When I wasn’t dating. I shut the door firmly on the apps.

And when I was dating, I did all the things to get the result I wanted - a loving partner and a new marriage.

If you’ve decided not to date and love your reason why, that’s great.

However, if you say you’ve decided not to date, but you spend so much time thinking about getting out there, spinning in indecision about it, constantly changing your mind, getting off and on the apps, letting unsuitable guys slide in your DMs, then we need to talk.

Flip flopping on the dating issue is the best way to waste a ton of time and energy.

You say you’re not dating to focus on something else, but you spend so much time thinking about dating

All this keeps you from the life you want.

You lose momentum making and unmaking the decision

Procrastinating, feeling overwhelmed, not managing time, not moving forward.

You neither find a suitable partner, nor create something equally amazing

The truth is our brains like for us to do nothing. It wants to stay in the comfort zone, to keep you distracted from taking real action towards the life you want

You are wired with the fear of change and fear of going out of the comfort zone

You are afraid of doing it wrong, of ending up with the wrong person, not knowing how, being rejected, of the amount of effort you think it will take

Stop letting your lower non-conscious brain make the decision for you

Face up to the truth of what you REALLY WANT

You are the boss. Decide and commit

And when you do, put your brain’s focus on whatever you choose to do, take action and get it done

If you’re thinking about dating & getting married again, I want to invite you to book a consultation call with me

I will walk you through what you’re doing well with dating, what’s not going well, and what you need to do differently

If you’re serious about creating your dream relationship, this call will change everything for you. 

Schedule here now: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment