Remarriage Stories
Many of the happiest marriages around you are second marriages
I was oblivious to this until I told people I was divorced
Then they opened up
My credit union banker of 15 years told me she'd been divorced and now remarried for 20 years when I called to take myself off our joint account
A woman told me her parents had had to come rescue her from her first abusive marriage and her current marriage was the second for both of them - I’d known her for 8 years and had no idea
As the stories came rolling in, I realized that what people called "broken" was just life and it was everywhere
Many of us simply get it wrong the first time around
Because we thought we were doing the right thing
Because we were too young
Because we had no idea what we were doing or how to do it
Because we were trusting and fell for a lie
Because we got pressured into a decision
Because someone changed
The remarriage stories I heard gave me just enough hope and belief to be willing to try again to do the work to make it happen
If your view of dating and finding a partner after divorce is bleak and discouraged, I challenge you to reach out to 5 remarried couples and ask them how they met and what the journey from divorce to remarriage looked like
Those stories will be way better fuel for your journey than venting about dating horror stories over and over
Your brain has a negativity bias and it loves to collect and create scenarios that show you how impossible what you want is
Turn your focus to where you are going and you're more likely to get there
Creating focus on success stories is not a one and done event. When you are pursuing a big goal like a healthy relationship, leaving your mindset to chance won’t cut it
You will spiral into doubt, discouragement and apathy unless you have a strong plan to remove limiting beliefs and unproductive habits while learning the dating skills you need
Developing the belief & focus needed to successfully date and get married again is a skill I teach in my coaching program.
Schedule a consult call with me here: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment
I will walk you through how I help divorced women date with ease and get married again and you can become the next success story. Let’s do it.