What ACTUALLY creates success in dating?
A client of mine told me that her other single friends questioned her decision.
“What in the world is a dating coach, and why would you hire one?”
This question sums up the common misconceptions people have about what it takes to meet and partner with a loving and trustworthy man.
They think that all you need is to swipe enough times and get lucky enough to meet a good man. This is the "relationships are a lottery" belief. It’s simply luck and you don’t need a coach for that!
They think what creates success is:
Finding the right app
Putting the magic words in your profile
Dress up and look nice
Swipe 1000x and go out on 300 dates
Being nice - giving any and all men a chance
Swing from being more picky to being less picky every week
Send the right text from the list you downloaded online
Follow the dating “rules”
But then you’re doing all the things listed, but it’s still not working, so you become exhausted and give up, blame "the world out there” or think that it’s because there’s something wrong with you.
But going online and swiping is just scratching the surface of the true requirements to create real love.
Here’s what you ACTUALLY NEED to meet high quality suitors and create a match within six months or less:
The confidence to be your fully expressed and authentic self so that you show up attracting people who match who you are
Clarity on who the right man for you will be, so you stop trying to fit square pegs in round holes
A high value dating strategy that includes both online and organic ways to meet men who are compatible with you (not just random dudes from an app)
The confidence and mindset to show up consistently to meet people online and offline
The emotional energy and mindset to not getting burned out every week and taking long breaks - which slows down your journey
Becoming an excellent judge of character - without being judgmental - so you stop “hoping” every man is the one
A life you enjoy and are present in everyday - so that not having a partner yet doesn’t make you sit in despair, desperation and frustration
Complete healing from past toxic relationship patterns so you stop repeating them
The next level of social skills to connect with people, make an impact and be memorable - both online and offline
…These and more are what my clients master when they work with me
Relationships are not a casual consideration. Yes, dating is a challenge. The more reason to be serious about getting good at getting results. Now, not later.
Here’s your invitation to stop scratching the surface, work with me and get the love you want.
Schedule your consult call here: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment