There was this time I got ghosted when dating.
I got pretty attached to someone after our first date.
He then ghosted me the same week.
At first I was devastated.
Then I realized, “I don’t even know this man. What am I spinning in despair about?”
So I changed my dating process to hold space for the ambiguity of not knowing who a man is until I got to the truth.
I learned to become unattached to any particular man being “the one” until my standards and milestones had been met.
I stopped falling in love until a man was 100% proven
Falling in love was in my control, it wasn’t something that “just happened” to me
I let men self-select themselves out of my life by showing up authentically, asking for what I wanted and enjoying myself while doing it.
Guess what happened?
I stopped getting ghosted.
Dating became fun again.
Now I was the one telling the guys that they weren’t for me.
I got to pick and choose until “The One” came along.
My clients get good at doing this
It takes the emotional pain and exhaustion out of dating
And accelerates their journey to meeting “The One’
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