How to be Interesting on a Dating

September 5, 2022 Sade Curry

This is for those who feel paralyzed when it comes to sending that first text message

Overthinking every word you type, then deleting, rewriting over and over to make sure you have something “interesting” to say

Worried because that one guy wrote “don’t send me a one-liner, be witty when you text me?”

Or Are you trying to live up to the cliche advice “to be interesting, make sure you’re interested in the other person?”

So you work for the approval of random strangers

All of the above is a waste of time and guaranteed to burn you out

All of that overthinking and effort turns apps into this stressful huge deal

And then you get a “wyd” in response to your masterpiece

No wonder you burn out on dating, deleting your app again and declaring that dating is “exhausting”

STOP IT

You only need to be interesting to the person who would be interested in you anyway

Which means YOU ARE ALREADY 100% INTERESTING

Don’t believe me? This may be the bottleneck in your dating pipeline

I prove this to my clients in the very first step of my dating process - the self-discovery module of our work together

We deep dive into who they are - what’s already fascinating and interesting

And they can’t believe the person who emerges when they change the lens with which they view themselves

I call it “Becoming Irresistible” (you already are, but you might not know it)

You are amazing and you need to know it deep down in your bones if dating is going to work for you

Seeing your true value dismisses any doubts that you’re interesting

Nothing on the app makes you feel insecure

You’ll stop worrying that he’s “out of your league”

Unfortunately, women are conditioned to spend our time looking for what’s interesting in others, hoping they do the same for us

But they don’t

You want to be seen, but the person who needs to see you is YOU

When you work with me, we do the self-discovery work creates Dating Confidence