How to Be Interesting on Dating Apps: The Truth No One Tells You
Are you one of those divorced women who feels paralyzed when it comes to sending that first text message while dating? Overthinking every word you type, then deleting, rewriting over and over to make sure you have something "interesting" to say?
Maybe you're worried because that one guy wrote "don't send me a one-liner, be witty when you text me"? Or perhaps you're trying to live up to the cliche dating advice "to be interesting, make sure you're interested in the other person"?
So you work for the approval of random strangers on dating apps, many of whom turn out to be low-effort men anyway.
The Dating App Burnout Cycle
All of the above is a waste of time and guaranteed to burn you out.
All of that overthinking and effort turns dating apps into this stressful huge deal. And then what happens? You get a "wyd" in response to your masterpiece message that took 20 minutes to craft.
No wonder you burn out on dating, deleting your app again and declaring that dating is "exhausting."
A Revolutionary Approach to Dating After Divorce
STOP IT.
Here's the dating truth that will change everything: You only need to be interesting to the person who would be interested in you anyway.
Which means YOU ARE ALREADY 100% INTERESTING.
Don't believe me? This may be the bottleneck in your dating pipeline, especially if you're dating after divorce and trying to figure out when you're ready to date again.
Discovering Your Natural Dating Appeal
I prove this to my clients in the very first step of my dating process - the self-discovery module of our work together.
We deep dive into who they are - what's already fascinating and interesting about them as women over 40 who are dating again. And they can't believe the person who emerges when they change the lens with which they view themselves.
I call it "Becoming Irresistible" (you already are, but you might not know it).
You are amazing and you need to know it deep down in your bones if dating is going to work for you. When you're ready to date, this self-knowledge becomes your superpower.
The Dating Confidence Transformation
Seeing your true value dismisses any doubts that you're interesting. Nothing on the dating app makes you feel insecure. You'll stop worrying that he's "out of your league" or crafting perfect dating questions to ask just to keep his attention.
Unfortunately, women are conditioned to spend our time looking for what's interesting in others, hoping they do the same for us. But low-effort men don't. They want you to do all the work in dating.
You want to be seen, but the person who needs to see you is YOU.
When you work with me, we do the self-discovery work that creates genuine Dating Confidence. This confidence helps you quickly identify quality matches and filter out the low-effort men who waste your time with lazy communication.
Ready to transform your dating experience after divorce? Let's work together to uncover the naturally fascinating woman you already are, and help you find the partner who appreciates everything about you.