THE #1 THING YOU NEED FOR SUCCESSFUL DATING AFTER DIVORCE

Are you finding that all the men you meet after divorce are disappointing? Struggling with low-quality online dating profiles? Wondering why meeting good men in person seems nearly impossible? You're not alone in your dating frustrations.

I experienced the exact same challenges. After my divorce, once I had moved through the initial grieving and healing process, I genuinely wanted companionship and a lifelong teammate. Like many women dating after divorce, I quickly realized I wasn't meant for the single life! 😂

But my early dating experiences were filled with struggle until I uncovered the #1 thing you need to find a good man. This is THE most important factor to consider before you start dating after divorce.

The Essential Foundation for Dating Success

In my early post-divorce dating journey, I found myself in some truly bizarre situations that left me thinking: "OMG, THERE HAS TO BE A BETTER WAY TO MEET AN AWESOME MAN!"

And there absolutely is. The #1 thing that transformed my dating experience is being 100% clear on what a good man actually looks like for you. You must hold this image with crystal clarity: What would a loving, healthy, nourishing relationship really look like in your life?

When you lack this embodied clarity, dating becomes an emotional roller coaster of fake highs and crushing disappointments. Without the right dating questions to ask yourself and potential partners, you'll constantly find yourself:

  • Falling into unsatisfying situationships

  • Settling for low-effort men who don't meet your needs

  • Breaking up after investing months in the wrong person

  • Getting triggered by disappointing dating experiences

Your Dating North Star

What you need is a North Star that helps you hone in on the right type of men and confidently filter out all the others. This clarity helps you recognize when you're ready to date and allows you to spot low-effort men before investing your precious time and emotional energy.

This clear vision is why I created the 50 Green Flags Checklist that I sent you. If you haven't downloaded it yet, here's the link: CLICK HERE.

For those who have already downloaded it, I'm curious: how did your past dating experiences measure up against these green flags? Did you recognize patterns in the men you've dated? Were there warning signs you missed or qualities you overlooked?

Hit reply to let me know your insights. Analyzing your dating history through this lens can be incredibly revealing about when you're truly ready to date and what you should be looking for.

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