I Created My Best Life and True Love After Divorce… How I Did It
One night, my husband and I stayed up late after the kids went to bed.
We had an oldie movie playing in the living room.
He sat on the couch writing on his laptop while I assembled bankers' boxes to store my thousands of books.
We talked and laughed back and forth about the movie. He kept offering to help me with the boxes, and I kept saying "I got it" as one does 😂
Such an ordinary evening.
But it encapsulates how my life has transformed since I went from divorced in 2015 to happily remarried in 2019.
Dating After Divorce: The Journey to Finding Love Again
My mind explodes over the difference in my daily experience.
From chaos with the ex and the lonely days of being single after the divorce...
To...
💞 Companionship. Love. Friendship. Teamwork. Peace. Laughter. Communication. Romance.
This transformation would NOT have been possible without my step-by-step dating process designed specifically for women over 40 navigating the modern American dating landscape.
When Am I Ready to Date Again?
This is the question I asked myself repeatedly after my divorce. The truth is, I wasn't ready until I took everything I learned about relationships and applied those lessons to my post-divorce growth journey.
I developed essential dating questions to ask both myself and potential partners:
Am I truly healed from my past relationship?
What values are non-negotiable for me now?
How can I recognize a low-effort man early in the dating process?
What kind of relationship will truly fulfill me at this stage of my life?
Walking through these steps led me to meet my husband and getting remarried in 2019.
I use the same principles to continue the healthy growth in our marriage.
Avoid Low-Effort Men: The Key to Dating Success After 40
One of the most important lessons I learned while dating after divorce was how to quickly identify and avoid low-effort men. You know the type—they want the benefits of a relationship without putting in the work.
As women over 40, we've earned better. My dating process teaches you exactly how to spot these red flags early, saving you precious time and emotional energy.
And every week, I guide my clients through the same method.
I help them apply it to their unique circumstances. Because there's a love available for everyone in their context.
The work works if you work it.
If you want your own version of a very ordinary evening with your very own life partner instead of evenings and weekends that stretch out ahead of you wishing there was someone to spend it with, schedule that consult call with me.
Because love is 100% available for you, no matter where you are in your dating after divorce journey.