“I was a huge people pleaser. I was very codependent. I didn't know that. At the time, I didn't know what that was.”
“The funny thing is, when you let go of all that control, then sometimes you're pleasantly surprised about getting the exact thing you would have wanted.”
“So I was having all these experiences with other people. And I was being treated in a much different way, like I was being respected. And people were asking about my boundaries and very respectful of my boundaries. And that was very much a contrast to what I had known for the last 10 years.”
“So that was a green flag for me that he liked that. So he loved all the questions I had. He really liked that process. And through that we found out like, we do want the same things.”
“Even though it feels like things happened so fast this year, it's because I've been working at this for four years consciously, but many years before that.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Karilyn Ivers.
Karilyn Ivers is an expert at learning from her failures. As a certified life coach, she helps her clients do the same.
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