When you worry that meeting your partner will never happen, it’s because you’re only using your past experience as the indicator of what your future looks like
The brain likes to be certain even if it has no idea what it’s talking about
It’s a con man talking about “a sure thing”
It pretends it knows the future
It doesn’t
If you have more belief, you might think, well, it’s a 50-50 or 40-60 chance that it’ll happen in the next year
But that’s just the brain again pretending it knows
Again, it doesn’t
If you are on the apps, actively dating, improving your skill using the apps and interacting, troubleshooting the process, working through the weirdness, putting yourself out there, meeting new people, going to events, having conversations, healing and creating a more powerful mindset, going on 2 - 3 good dates a week…
Your odds shoot right up there to 80%, 90%, 95%
Past experience was never an indicator that anyone would ever do anything new:
Ride a bike
Get married the first time
Buy a home
Kiss a boy
Get on a plane
You’ve done a million things that you’d never done before
You’re going to do a million more
You can meet your second (or third!) soulmate for the first time
The fact that you haven’t met him yet means nothing about you meeting him in the future
Keep going
Spots are available to work with me one-on-one or in my group program to accelerate your journey to meet the one.
Belief is one of the pillars we work on to get your mind where it needs to be to succeed at dating. We uncover the limiting beliefs under the surface and bring them to light with compassion
Then we shift them and find the solid evidence that you too can have the relationship you want
You will release the impatience, disappointment and dating fatigue and shifts into energized calm as you realize that you are 100% capable of making this happen
Schedule a consult call with me if you’re ready to meet your person, get off the apps and ride off into the sunset. http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment