Your dating journey takes off when you stop letting discouragement stall you
The point of a relationship is to show up for life at the highest level, grow into the best version of yourself, and share that amazing journey with another human
And that part is 100% up to you
When you focus on this, your success becomes evitable
You’ll stop getting irritated at the “men out there” and worrying about who didn’t message you and why
You’ll show up with the “I’ve got this” certainty that love is inevitable for you
But when you’re thinking, “This isn’t working for me,” you create apathy
This is when you dive into busywork and distractions
You numb out
You don’t go on the apps
You don’t do the work to uplevel your dating skill
You overthink - trying to figure out the path to love that has no bumps
You go through another 6 months of wondering “if you really want a partner”
You convince yourself that those who have partners have some special ingredient
In a nutshell, you work overtime to make sure dating doesn’t work for you
It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy
But it also works the other way
If you intentionally choose a mindset that supports a successful dating journey, then dating will work for you
It starts with shifting your belief in yourself
Choosing to believe that you, with everything going on in your life, deserve an amazing love
And that you are totally capable of creating it
That you’ve accomplished so much already in your life and you are bringing all that resourcefulness, intelligence, and intention to dating
This makes success certain
Discouragement is a lie your brain tells you to keep you safe in your comfort zone
Empowerment is equally available when you redirect it
This is the essence of coaching - becoming the boss of the brain and telling it which self-fulfilling prophecies to focus on
I help you get your brain on board with the ones that get you the result you want
We tackle it all - healing after divorce, dating apps, dating IRL, dating anxiety, knowing when he’s the one, red flags vs human flaws, going exclusive, nurturing commitment…all the things
Schedule a call with me to get 6 months of this kind of coaching on every aspect of your dating journey