Feeling Discouraged About Dating?

Your dating journey takes off when you stop letting discouragement stall you

The point of a relationship is to show up for life at the highest level, grow into the best version of yourself, and share that amazing journey with another human

And that part is 100% up to you

When you focus on this, your success becomes evitable

You’ll stop getting irritated at the “men out there” and worrying about who didn’t message you and why

You’ll show up with the “I’ve got this” certainty that love is inevitable for you 

But when you’re thinking, “This isn’t working for me,” you create apathy

This is when you dive into busywork and distractions

You numb out

You don’t go on the apps

You don’t do the work to uplevel your dating skill

You overthink - trying to figure out the path to love that has no bumps

You go through another 6 months of wondering “if you really want a partner”

You convince yourself that those who have partners have some special ingredient

In a nutshell, you work overtime to make sure dating doesn’t work for you

It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy

But it also works the other way

If you intentionally choose a mindset that supports a successful dating journey, then dating will work for you

It starts with shifting your belief in yourself

Choosing to believe that you, with everything going on in your life, deserve an amazing love

And that you are totally capable of creating it

That you’ve accomplished so much already in your life and you are bringing all that resourcefulness, intelligence, and intention to dating

This makes success certain

Discouragement is a lie your brain tells you to keep you safe in your comfort zone

Empowerment is equally available when you redirect it

This is the essence of coaching - becoming the boss of the brain and telling it which self-fulfilling prophecies to focus on

I help you get your brain on board with the ones that get you the result you want

We tackle it all - healing after divorce, dating apps, dating IRL, dating anxiety, knowing when he’s the one, red flags vs human flaws, going exclusive, nurturing commitment…all the things

Schedule a call with me to get 6 months of this kind of coaching on every aspect of your dating journey