The work I did to create a new love after divorce is the same work I continue to do in my marriage
The state of your mind determines the state of your life
After the divorce, I had to heal, grow and shift out of survival mode
I did the work to face every day with intention instead of living on autopilot
I stopped waiting for someone - the ex, the court system, the church, my friends, or whoever to come save me
Discovering and staying connected to my authentic self
Focusing on my own thoughts and feelings
Letting other people be who they are and taking responsibility for my own actions
And for creating the life I wanted - in my health, money, and in love
It's all the same work to have a vibrant, loving marriage
Expressing who I am, living honestly and authentically
Accepting my partner for exactly who he is
Keeping the vision for our life together alive
Healing, growing, creating openness, connection, and adventure
Nurturing our love, not waiting for someone else to do the work
Practicing giving, learning to receive
Deepening intimacy and vulnerability
I return to the same tools and resources over and over again
And I'm so grateful I started my growth journey when I did
It’s made remarriage the best thing ever
Don’t wait until you meet your partner to start the work - it’s the same and you can’t avoid it if you want an extraordinary love
If you have areas of relationship growth you need to tackle, now is the time to get started
Schedule a consult call with me to interrupt autopilot and create and extraordinary love