How to Create Love After Divorce

The work I did to create a new love after divorce is the same work I continue to do in my marriage

The state of your mind determines the state of your life

After the divorce, I had to heal, grow and shift out of survival mode

I did the work to face every day with intention instead of living on autopilot

I stopped waiting for someone - the ex, the court system, the church, my friends, or whoever to come save me

Discovering and staying connected to my authentic self

Focusing on my own thoughts and feelings

Letting other people be who they are and taking responsibility for my own actions

And for creating the life I wanted - in my health, money, and in love

It's all the same work to have a vibrant, loving marriage

Expressing who I am, living honestly and authentically

Accepting my partner for exactly who he is

Keeping the vision for our life together alive

Healing, growing, creating openness, connection, and adventure

Nurturing our love, not waiting for someone else to do the work

Practicing giving, learning to receive

Deepening intimacy and vulnerability

I return to the same tools and resources over and over again

And I'm so grateful I started my growth journey when I did

It’s made remarriage the best thing ever

Don’t wait until you meet your partner to start the work - it’s the same and you can’t avoid it if you want an extraordinary love

If you have areas of relationship growth you need to tackle, now is the time to get started

Schedule a consult call with me to interrupt autopilot and create and extraordinary love