Why You Should Shift Your Dating Mindset
I never expected that my husband would would live 30 minutes away from me
Back in early 2018, it seemed like I could not find any good men in my city
I kept getting to bottom of my online queue
The ones who liked me were not what I wanted
The ones I liked didn’t like me back
I wondered if my ethnicity was the issue
Or if I was intimidating because I was successful and had my own opinions
The men I met in person were decent, but emotionally unavailable
I dated a couple of unsuitable men, one of whom wasted my time for months before I figured out the relationship was going nowhere
I was sick of the swiping, confusion, and negging (it’s a dating thing - google it)
It wasn’t until I changed my thinking that I stopped feeling stressed and crushed about dating
As I did the work, I shifted to the belief that I was fully lovable and love was 100% possible for me
It sounded like,
"I’m pretty sure my husband isn’t in this city, and I might have to move to find him. But I’m going to keep practicing and having fun and wherever he is on the planet, I am for sure the woman who will find him."
When I embraced the certainty that there was someone out there for me AND I was fully capable of meeting him, it completely changed the game
I stopped…
Being ashamed of being divorced and “on the market”
Getting frustrated at the apps
Worrying about when it would happen
Wondering if I was sabotaging my journey
Chasing the perfect profiles
Using the profiles I didn’t like as evidence that something was wrong
Stopped being attached to the outcome of every date
I started...
Dating and interacting with men just as fellow humans
Actively spending time discovering myself and enjoying the life I had
Traveling more and meeting people wherever I went
Putting my true accomplishments, opinions and values out there on dates
And less than 2 months later, I met my husband
Right there in my city
Totally compatible
Completely trustworthy and transparent
All in on a long term relationship
Dating can be like this for you too
When you coach with me, I teach you all the steps I took to meet my partner combined with powerful coaching tools to heal your old relationship triggers and patterns and to shift your mindset to one of powerful confidence
After doing this work with so many women for four years, I can help you with your unique dating scenario
Get started with a consultation call: https://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment