Your man is one degree away from you
You are just a degree or two away from the person who will turn out to be your perfect match
You are way more connected to opportunities and possibilities than you are primed to believe
There are people who match who you are all around you
There are men who read (and write!) books
There are men who go to the opera
There are men who serve and volunteer
There are men building their businesses
There are men who want a family
There are men who want to travel the world
Granted, they aren’t knocking on your door every evening while you eat cookies on the couch
But that doesn’t mean they don’t exist
When you choose to keep the opposite belief, you train your brain to keep shutting out the possibility
It is culturally acceptable to complain loudly and vigorously about the dating scene, but if you want a relationship, that habit is holding you back
Just like you notice the make/model of your newly purchased care everywhere you go
Every time to you rehearse the worst of what you see, you prime your brain to notice and deliver more evidence that this is all there is
Once you’ve convinced yourself deep down of it, self-doubt creeps in
And you decide to settle for less because, “there’s no good men” or “my expectations are unrealistic”
You decide to “give chances” and have less than ideal experiences
Further reinforcing the belief that this is all there is
It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy
I teach my students to intentionally direct their brain to the thoughts and beliefs that facilitate what they want - a loving, fulfilling relationship
We collect evidence that it exists in their world
That family member who is a wonderful family man
That co-worker who calls his wife at lunch everyday
The old couple down the street married for 50 years
My clients change their thoughts to believe in the kind of relationship they want so they become primed to find them and to only be attracted to that
They end the belief that if you can't find a good man, or if you haven't found one yet, then it means that they don't exist
Remember, your comfort zone is to stay NOT achieving the goal
Default thinking will keep you from putting yourself out there in ways that are effective
When you shift your brain away from negative self-talk about yourself and the way the world is
Into elevated thinking about how big the world is and what the possibilities are, you will feel expansive and creative
You open up to the opportunities that you were closed off to because you believed otherwise
The best ideas for where and how to date
The energy to move your journey forward
The openness to connect with people who are just a degree away from you
That’s what you need to get it done
You get your relationship done when you work with me in my 1:1 coaching program
We will also discuss your strategy for dating online and offline, changing past relationship patterns and training your intuition to never choose wrong again.
You will go from single and searching to fully committed in an effortless, fulfilling and connected relationship
Schedule your consult call here: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment