The Smart Woman's Guide to Dating Success After Divorce
Are You Ready to Transform Your Dating Experience?
Got carpal tunnel from swiping left on the dating apps?
Are you done with figuring out the rules and games being played on the dating scene?
It's like being in the twilight zone to get asked for pictures of your feet when you are a woman who has created so much value in the world, making an impact with your creative work, your leadership and your influence.
You go from speaking in front of the CEO and managing your team to getting ghosted on an app.
Dating After Divorce Doesn't Have to Be Soul-Crushing
You want to meet new people, but you want to do it in a mature way that doesn't compromise your self-worth, dignity and class.
You want to get over the attachment issues leftover from the divorce.
You want to end the horrid first dates and fighting off unwanted advances.
All the wishing and hoping, checking out guys with no ring on their finger and wondering how to start a conversation.
And don't get me started on the married men sliding into your DMs!
When Am I Ready to Date? Ask Yourself These Questions:
Are you looking for someone who can hold an interesting conversation about topics that matter to you?
Do you want a partner you could take to the office party or your next charity ball without fear of being embarrassed?
Are you hoping for a guy who invites you to the church BBQ and comes to your best friend's birthday party?
Sis, this is entirely possible!
This result is the focus of the work that I do with divorced women in my coaching practice.
Say Goodbye to Low-Effort Men
My signature program is geared toward the woman in midlife who doesn't have time to go on 600 dates before finding the one.
My process turns dating from an impossible chore into an adventure that incorporates all of your wants and high standards for dating.
My first attempts at dating after divorce were terrible and I quickly got tired of the grossness of the interactions I was having.
After months of yucky online dating interactions and also getting matched with my ex (seriously??) I shut the apps down thinking, "there has got to be a better way to do this."
I was tired of getting burned but I didn't want to quit and just give up on having an amazing remarriage.
The Visibility Formula: Essential Dating Questions to Ask Yourself
So I doubled down and designed a system to fix the mistakes I was making in my dating strategy. A few months later, I met the man who is now my husband.
I call this system the Visibility Formula.
What did I do differently using the Visibility Formula?
I stopped limiting myself to online dating and started dating BOTH online and in real life
I figured out exactly where in real life to meet and date men who were intellectually compatible with me
I started showing up in a way that made me visible to the types of men I wanted to meet
I learned to stop being invisible in plain sight and create in-person connections without being awkward
I created an online profile that repelled the weirdos and caught the attention of the type of men I wanted to meet
I practiced exercises that healed my intuition so that I could tell with accuracy whether or not to keep dating someone - saved me from wasting time with toxic men
I practiced staying emotionally neutral until a man truly earned my trust through action and dependability
These are the exact steps I used and I know they work for any divorced woman who wants to create a relationship where she feels safe, loved and cherished.
Learning how to be visible helps you stop spinning your wheels in the dating world, meet the man of your dreams, and get on with your life.
This system works whether you are using dating apps or dating without apps.