Spend Time Alone
The art of spending time alone often comes up as a growth opportunity while dating
One of the ways to train your intuition to help you choose a good man is to spend time alone
What comes up for you when you’ve said no to the last three people in your app queue and there’s no one else in the pipeline?
Do you get lonely or restless?
What do you fill the space with?
Entertainment? Sleep? Food? Other people?
What if you could use that space to sit with yourself and get to know who you really are on the inside?
Can you be there for yourself and engage with that internal conversation that you’ve been putting off for years?
No one enjoys turning the lens inward
We don’t know what we might find
Focusing on our own thoughts and feelings means we become responsible for resolving whatever comes up
After a divorce you might experience not knowing who you are and what your identity is
The cure is to find out by looking inward
Taking a break from everyone else’s opinions, issues, thoughts or behavior
And focus on yours
Letting the feelings of restlessness, boredom, emptiness, and longing come up
instead of pushing them back down and covering them up with whatever keeps you busy and distracted
You get temporary relief, but the weekend rolls around again and there’s the black hole staring at you again
Remember when you had kids and you’d spend time looking at each other, mirroring faces at each other?
It may be time to become that mirror for yourself
To hold space for yourself in the way that no one else can
To look inside with compassion and self-acceptance at whatever you find
Loving whatever version of yourself is feeling the way you feel - the grown woman or the little girl, the diva or the tired sister, the mean girl or the CEO
Bringing love to the whole human that you are
You want a partner who lets you be yourself and who accepts you for everything that you are
The first step to finding him is for you to show up for everything that you are
You have to do it for yourself first
When you do, you’ll know exactly what it looks like to show up for you.
And you’ll so easily recognize and choose a man who can do the same
You’ll never feel attracted to an emotionally unavailable man again
I can help you create this space to truly rediscover and love yourself again
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