I can help you stop attaching to the men you meet too quickly
A man being nice, clean, kind and respectful on a first date does not necessarily qualify him to be your life partner
These are basic requirements for a decent human being
These are not the qualities required to trust someone with the rest of your life
Your finances
Your body
And access to your children
Falling in love quickly is your brain's way of not wanting to do the work
Your brain wants you to attach because attachment represents safety, security and significance
It thinks the sooner it gets attached, the sooner it will be safe and loved
It wants to save calories by going deeper and seeing what's right there if you want to see it
So it slides you into your feelings
You forget about your goals, dreams and vision
You're distracted by your brain's desire to make this guy "The One"
It puts blinders up to cover up the little yellow flags
It makes you too scared to ask the right questions
Then three months go by, the yellow flags turn into bright red flags
You break up
And now you're starting over from scratch
This process will have you wasting tons of time in the dating process
It creates a lot of frustration
And you give up on your journey over and over
Not to talk of the time and energy you could have poured into other endeavors
This is not a call to give up dating
It's a call to date smarter, with your eyes wide open
Engage your logical self, by having a step by step process that you are following to evaluate every man you date
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