I can help you stop attaching to the men you meet too quickly

A man being nice, clean, kind and  respectful on a first date does not necessarily qualify him to be your life partner

These are basic requirements for a decent human being

These are not the qualities required to trust someone with the rest of your life

Your finances

Your body

And access to your children

Falling in love quickly is your brain's way of not wanting to do the work

Your brain wants you to attach because attachment represents safety, security and significance

It thinks the sooner it gets attached, the sooner it will be safe and loved

It wants to save calories by going deeper and seeing what's right there if you want to see it

So it slides you into your feelings

You forget about your goals, dreams and vision

You're distracted by your brain's desire to make this guy "The One"

It puts blinders up to cover up the little yellow flags

It makes you too scared to ask the right questions

Then three months go by, the yellow flags turn into bright red flags

You break up

And now you're starting over from scratch

This process will have you wasting tons of time in the dating process

It creates a lot of frustration

And you give up on your journey over and over

Not to talk of the time and energy you could have poured into other endeavors

This is not a call to give up dating

It's a call to date smarter, with your eyes wide open

Engage your logical self, by having a step by step process that you are following to evaluate every man you date

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