10 FIRST DATES IN 30 DAYS CHALLENGE: The Ultimate Guide to Dating After Divorce for Women Over 40
Are you wondering when you're ready to date again after your divorce? My Dating After Divorce Academy clients just kicked off their transformative "10 First Dates in 30 Days" challenge—a powerful approach that's consistently delivering incredible results for divorced women over 40 across the United States.
Why This Dating Challenge Works
In this challenge, participants commit to going on 10 first dates within a single month without placing expectations on any particular date. This approach completely transforms the dating after divorce experience by:
Turning dating activities into a fun game that eliminates pressure and overthinking
Breaking the habit of tying your self-worth to a swipe, text, or date outcome
Helping you realize that whether a date becomes a relationship or turns out to be a dud says nothing about your ability to find someone special
Teaching you to detach from outcomes and use each date as an opportunity to win or learn
Giving you real-world experience to overcome social anxiety and get comfortable being visible
What You'll Discover About Dating
Through these 10 dates, you'll:
Experience what real men look and feel like (not just profiles on a screen)
Figure out what you genuinely like and don't like in potential partners
Use dating to explore the world instead of hiding at home
Break out of your post-divorce comfort zone
Learn to be confidently visible and engage with the real world
Practice what to say, how to show up, and how to effectively connect
Develop your flirting skills in real-time situations
Learn to quiet the obsessive inner voice that grasps and attaches too quickly
Avoiding the Low-Effort Man Trap
One of the most valuable lessons you'll learn during this challenge is how to identify and avoid the low-effort man. These are the men who:
Make minimal investment in the relationship
Expect you to do all the emotional labor
Show inconsistent commitment and communication
Disappear and reappear without explanation
Through intentional dating, you'll develop a radar for these red flags and learn to hold out for someone who matches your investment and values.
Essential Dating Questions to Ask
During these dates, you'll practice asking strategic dating questions that reveal compatibility and character:
Questions about their relationship history and what they learned
Questions that reveal their emotional intelligence and self-awareness
Questions about their vision for the future and how they handle conflict
Questions that help you determine if they're genuinely available and ready for partnership
The Real-World Results
The outcomes of this challenge are consistently amazing:
Some clients meet their perfect match during the challenge
Others experience breakthroughs that finally open up their flow of quality men
Everyone learns to trust that the dating process works if you work it
Dating finally clicks into place, and the path forward becomes clear
You'll begin to see the concrete steps leading to that moment when you're holding hands with a trustworthy person who truly gets you—someone committed and transparent. That moment will absolutely be worth your investment of time, energy, and courage.
You Don't Have to Navigate Dating Alone
The good news? You don't have to figure this out by yourself. This fun challenge can be part of your dating after divorce journey too. I specialize in helping divorced women date with ease and create remarkable relationships.
Through personalized coaching, we'll focus on:
Overcoming stuckness and the "where-are-all-the-good-men" syndrome
Creating abundant opportunities for meeting and connecting with potential partners
Leveraging your community to get quality introductions and blind dates
Making conversations easy, authentic, and engaging
Learning the dance of healthy relationships and how to identify when someone is right for you (or definitely not)
Going exclusive without anxiety
Stop wondering when you're ready to date and start taking empowered action. The "10 First Dates in 30 Days" challenge could be your turning point to finding love after divorce.