You want a long-term, stable relationship, but the idea of being in a relationship again scares you, it’s because you feel like you'll choose the wrong person again.
If you’ve had a past relationship that was traumatic or abusive, those experiences could get in the way of dating confidently after divorce.
Fear of conflict keeps you from setting boundaries or asserting yourself with your partners
Perfectionism keeps you from getting started dating
Fear of getting hurt keeps your walls up and sets impossible expectations for your partner
Hyper independence keeps you from receiving love and support from others
Insecurity keeps you wanting to be pursued forever without ever getting “caught”
Healing and changing old relationship patterns is a core part of my coaching practice. My clients take the time to create awareness and clarity around old patterns holding them back from connecting with the partner you want.
Once you see your own patterns, your new awareness gives you the ability to create new healthy relationship patterns that accelerate your journey to the man uniquely suited for the peaceful, respectful, passionate and loving relationship you want to create.
Everyone who creates a loving relationship after divorce does this work one way or another. If it seems scary and uncomfortable, that’s because looking inside after years of looking outside is unfamiliar.
Working with me gives you a safe space to unpack what’s underneath the surface and heal. Schedule your consultation call today.