Core Values Dating Blueprint: Don’t Settle for Less Than the Love You Want
The Success Story That Proves It Works
A client who started working with me in March of 2022 went exclusive with her new partner this week.
It took 18 months simply because she wanted a man who matched her...and she is a unicorn: she is a woman of color and a wealthy global citizen who is making a major impact in her industry.
She wanted someone who was already showing up at that level in his own life. And he is, down to major similarities in how they raise their children.
This week I asked her if the journey was worth it, and she beamed and said "more than worth it, he is amazing."
Why Core Values Dating Works For Everyone
In the years that I have been a dating coach, I have helped women of all races, ethnicities, body sizes and personality types find partners.
I like to believe that I can help anyone attract the type of person they want.
And it's not because of some hidden secret.
It's because I double down on what I believe is the best way to attract a partner who matches you on every level - dating with your core values.
When Is the Right Time to Start Dating Again?
Many divorced women ask me: "When am I ready to date?" The answer isn't about a specific timeline after your divorce. It's about knowing yourself and your values first.
Anytime a client of mine starts to shift their criteria for the man they want, I call them on it:
"Have your values changed? Or are you just settling because you're scared you won't find the man you want?"
The right time to date is when you can confidently answer essential dating questions like:
What truly matters to me in a relationship?
What kind of partner would complement my life?
What behaviors would make someone incompatible with me?
Avoiding Low-Effort Men Through Value Alignment
One common frustration in dating after divorce is encountering "low-effort men" - those who want the benefits of a relationship without putting in the work. By leading with your core values from the beginning, you naturally filter out those who aren't willing to meet your standards.
Leading with core values is what worked in my dating journey and what works for the women I see who create amazing relationships after divorce.
Yes, you still have to go on the apps, and out to social events and text and I teach amazing strategies on how to do all of those things.
But those things only become easy when you are solid on your core values.
The Core Values Dating Blueprint
I'm giving you everything about this process in the Core Values Dating Blueprint training
In this training you will:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
Discover and clarify your core values and the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values
Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who's right for you
Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
INTEGRATE YOUR CORE VALUES IN DATING
Learn exactly how and where to integrate your core values into every aspect of dating - dating profile, text messaging, in-person dates and social events so that you are effortlessly attracting people in the room who match you
Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process