Dating is a Playground for Growth with Chanci Dawn
“What I really discovered was there’s just so much joy when you can own who you are, and move forward.”
“ So I think the first part of it is to again, hire a coach, do your own work, grow yourself, this always comes. Learn how to respect yourself, treat yourself like you want to be treated, in your date and in your partnership show up for you.”
“The more you show up for yourself, the more your intuition grows, the more you learn how to trust that voice inside”
“Dating is a playground. So when you're able to go and be on this playground from this centered, deep, respectful place for yourself, then you can be like, Oh, that slide looks a little bit steep. But I think we're gonna give it a go. Because, why not?”
My guest on the podcast this week is Chanci Dawn.
Chanci Dawn coaches, speaks and advocates for freedom and love. Freedom from the chaos of the diet culture and love, the deepest kind of love, for yourself, your body, and the gift of food.
Chanci believes that when a woman makes peace with food and her body she is set free to focus her time, energy and brainpower on things that truly matter - making this work a powerful form of activism!
To support women on their own journey to freedom Chanci currently offers 1-1 and group coaching as well as a podcast titled "It Tastes Like Freedom". In her downtime, you can find Chanci in the forest or on the boat exploring the beautiful West Coast shoreline of her home - Vancouver Island Canada.
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Creativity and Financial Recovery after Divorce with Jill Allison Bryan
“I think the crux of the story is believing in yourself.”
“It was like I got pushed out of the nest… the cliche is true, because that's when I learned I can fly on my own.”
“I was very motivated to be independent, to stay in the house…not only to provide for my daughter, but to be an example of what was possible to her, that we didn't need…anybody else to take care of us, that we could do this.”
“Where we really get tripped up is when we expect that whatever it is that we're doing, our dating journey, or our business is going to go in best case scenario every day, no matter what. And then some little blip happens. And we're like, ‘oh, no, that's never gonna work.’”
My guest on the podcast this week is Jill Allison Bryan.
Jill Allison Bryan is a certified master creativity coach and founder of Creative Oasis Coaching. Since 2008, Jill has helped people around the world focus and follow-through with their personal and professional creative dreams. She excels at helping multi-passionate creatives move past procrastination, perfectionism, overwhelm, inner critic and other blocks to create lives and businesses they love.
Jill believes saying yes to your creative dreams makes you a happier, healthier, more fulfilled human and the world a better place. A multi-passionate creative herself, she loves playing piano, singing, writing songs, making “for the fun of it” art, cooking, traveling, hiking in mountains, running on beaches, reading, writing, entertaining, working out and playing tennis.
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Divorce, Dating and What it Means to be Polyamorous with Dr. Sonia Wright
“And I realized that I had this ability to love more than one person.”
“Our society has a tendency to say that it could only be one partner, this partner has to meet all your needs, and this … causes more harm and sadness in the world that needs to.”
“(Being Polyamorous) is just another way of being, in terms of having more than one relationship, more than one loving relationship with people.
“ Our women are told a number of things in terms of, your happy ever after depends on you being a good person and being selfless and taking care of everybody else and a long list of things that if we buy into it, can limit ourselves.
My guest on the podcast this week is Dr. Sonia Wright.
Dr. Sonia is a board-certified radiologist, a sexual counselor and a certified life coach (not to mention she’s also worked in a sex toy store). Working with Dr. Sonia is like working with three experts at once. She will help you understand your sexual difficulties from different perspectives and use her medical knowledge, sexual counseling skills and coaching tools to construct a holistic approach to resolving your difficulties.
Healing Relationship Trauma with Sarah Yost
“I knew that my thoughts were creating my reality, I knew that my thoughts were creating my feelings.”
“When somebody withdraws and you have a lack of regulation or oxytocin, then they give it back to you and you feel a flooding…The big feelings you have after they took it from you. That's not love. That's not attraction. And that's not passion. That's addiction.”
“The thing that I found with my current partner is we're incredibly well suited to each other. And what that means is, we don't have to work very hard to be in a relationship with each other, which is really nice.“
My guest on the podcast this week is Sarah Yost.
Sarah Yost is a Master Certified Life Coach specializing in anxiety freedom. She developed a technique called Emotional Reprocessing to rewire your experience of stressful events, both today and from your past. She is especially interested in the healing of feeling trapped and abandonment. Both of these core fears will stop you from enjoying dating and being able to create a true partnership.
She is happily divorced, the survivor of an emotionally abusive relationship, and a mother of 3. She is currently in an amazing but unconventional partnership of 4 years. She believes your desires are bright compasses to your destiny. If you desire it, you have what it takes to create it, no matter how weird or unreasonable it is.
Remarriage after codependency and partner addiction with Karilyn Ivers
“I was a huge people pleaser. I was very codependent. I didn't know that. At the time, I didn't know what that was.”
“The funny thing is, when you let go of all that control, then sometimes you're pleasantly surprised about getting the exact thing you would have wanted.”
“So I was having all these experiences with other people. And I was being treated in a much different way, like I was being respected. And people were asking about my boundaries and very respectful of my boundaries. And that was very much a contrast to what I had known for the last 10 years.”
“So that was a green flag for me that he liked that. So he loved all the questions I had. He really liked that process. And through that we found out like, we do want the same things.”
“Even though it feels like things happened so fast this year, it's because I've been working at this for four years consciously, but many years before that.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Karilyn Ivers.
Karilyn Ivers is an expert at learning from her failures. As a certified life coach, she helps her clients do the same.
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Dating after Divorce with Michelle Vasquez
“I became such a full time mom and homemaker that I had forgotten my favorite food or color."
"When women don't realize how much they lose themselves, when they start putting their marriage, their kids, their home first…they really let go of their identity.”
“I think the biggest mistake that I made and that I see a lot of women that come to me make, is they think that once we clear this up, that's it, you know, and we're done. And I think if we can be more loving and compassionate with ourselves we’ll realize that this is a daily work.”
“You know, if we can encourage women to stop judging themselves, stop taking the blame. You could have been the most horrible wife. But guess what? Amazing wives also get divorce.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Michelle Vasquez.
Michelle Vasquez is a Goal & Life Coach for divorced women. She works with her clients to set goals & the clear path to overcome obstacles and ensure that they achieve their goals.
When her marriage of 11 years ended, and she had three boys under the ages of eight to raise, she felt like her whole life crumbled right in front of her and she couldn't do anything to keep it together, change it, or go back to how things were. Fast forward 11 years, she got remarried to a wonderful man and has been remarried for seven years.
From all the struggles and victories, Michelle believes that the fact that she and her ex-husband have always been able to have a great co-parenting relationship has been the biggest victory.
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Healing my parenting journey after divorce with Rashida Bonds
“I had also experienced all of that guilt along the way…it was seven years of me parenting hard as a single mother…Going through a divorce, everything, parenting hard, trying to make sure everything was okay, knowing it wasn't okay. Feeling that guilt the whole time.”
“Not only did you come with your list, but you listened to their lists, like a champion. And you took those punches, like a champion.”
“I have experienced continuous healing, in my relationships, in my finances, in my business, you know, in my body, it's an ongoing…that healing work has continued.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Rashida Bonds
Rashida is THE life coach for people who are searching for and rediscovering themselves beyond the title of Mama.
Rashida has worked with youth and their parents for more than 20 years. When she became a parent herself, she gained a deep understanding of how important support is for parents, especially mamas.
Rashida has been coaching as a certified life coach for 5 years and she looks forward to many more years working with magical mamas who are changing the world.
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Client Success Story with Bee
“You're not going to find anybody better than me, says the Narcissist.”
“And just 2020 I was like, yeah, I can't do it anymore. Like I can't continue to get hurt. I can't continue to sit in something where my needs aren't getting met”
“You're not a loser for wanting to get help. I mean, look at me, I got a coach, I got a therapist, I got friends, like I have a whole village of people. So that doesn't make you dumb or weak. You cannot get through divorce alone…you need that village.”
“I think it just takes really doing the work. It makes the process so much easier.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Bee.
Bee is a current client. She likes to take long walks in the park loves good ratchet reality TV.
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Dating on your own terms - no rules with Jill Angie
“And so it took a couple years to work up the courage. And I think the turning point for me was, when somebody said to me, staying in this marriage is lying, because you're basically lying to that person, pretending that everything is fine when it's not, and you're lying to yourself.”
“I think the reason it was so easy is because I had decided I don't need a partner to feel good about myself.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Jill Angie.
Jill Angie, the founder and Head Rebel of Not Your Average Runner. Through her coaching program, she supports women who want to change their lives through running.
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Becoming a Love CEO with Natasha McCrea
“I think a woman who has found love within herself, she has a certain knowing and beingness. And we all know that lady, she walks in a room and everybody is gravitating to her and she's doing nothing except being herself. And you're wondering, why can't people keep their eyes off her? It has nothing to fully do with her external looks. It has to do with this energy, this inner glow that's happening.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Natasha McCrea.
Natasha is a love and life coach who guides Alpha Females into designing the life they want with grace and ease, so they can attract what their heart desires in both career and love. She believes women are the gatekeepers to love. You have more power than society has led you to believe and when you tap into that love power you can create the life and relationships
you deserve. So, she coaches smart women, who want to put down stress and overwhelm how to tap into their love power to live happier, more successful lives. They shift from Love Employee to Love CEO and make loving their lives a lifestyle.
As an actress Natasha toured her one woman show, "Evolution of a Love Addict" across the US. She owns a production company with her husband where she produces and creates compelling content with strong female leads. Her mission in life is to encourage and empower women through all forms of media. She is the Founder of Love CEO institute the place women promote themselves from Love Employee to Love CEO via the Love CEO
Program and private coaching. She has a degree in Psychology from Grand Canyon University. She is living the life she has designed for herself and she’d like to inspire, motivate and coach you to do the same. She believes, “When you own it, it’ll work for you.”
Natasha lives in Los Angeles, California with her husband.
In this episode, Natasha shares all about becoming a love CEO and the importance of taking ownership of "you incorporated."
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Healing & Changing Who You Attract with Susie Castellanos Hansley
My guest on the podcast this week is Susie Castellanos Hansley.
In this episode, Susie shares the story of how childhood trauma led her to desperately wanting to be loved and how this led her to chasing the wrong person. Finally meeting a man who loved her for who she was, Susie shares the story of how she met her husband after going through a devastating breakup.
This episode will thoroughly inspire you and encourage you to be yourself and turn the tide of your relationship for good.
What You’ll Learn:
The trouble Susie had with dating and relationships because of childhood abandonment trauma.
Susie’s experience with wanting to feel loved so much so that she would feel worthy, and how this was harmful to her in her first relationship.
How she shifted away from this and started getting more curious to know the men she was dating.
That you need to be yourself 100% of the time and attract those that are for you.
That you can turn the tide on your relationships by learning what the reality is, versus continuing to try to perpetuate a fantasy.
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Susie is a Mindset & Empowerment Coach who helps people feel better about themselves and their lives. She specializes in helping first-gen trailblazers reduce anxiety and self-doubt, increase confidence, and reach even higher levels of achievement.
Originally from San Diego, CA, Susie is herself a first-generation Mexican American, the first in her family to go to college, and an Ivy League Ph.D. Thanks to life coaching, she removed mental and emotional blocks that had held her back, quit her corporate job, and now gets to help others create lives they love as a life coach. She lives in Durham, NC with her husband of 17 years, Bill, three cats, and an extensive collection of family and friends.
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Dating with Healthy Independence with Lisa Friend
My guest on the podcast this week is Lisa Friend.
In today’s episode, Lisa shares her dating after divorce story and how she learnt the importance of being herself and being with a man who allows you to be your authentic self.
You’ll walk away from this episode with the confidence that you can be yourself and independent in your dating journey.
Prepare to be inspired by this episode.
What You’ll Learn:
Lisa’s experience being in a controlling marriage and how she gained freedom to be herself with her second husband.
The importance of being authentic without underlying expectations when you go out on dates.
Why it makes sense to want someone who is attracted to your authentic self when you think about the relationship that you want.
To relax and get yourself in that state of being who you are.
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Lisa Friend is a retired educator turned life coach. Being a lover of learning, she is a collector of degrees and certifications. She has an MS in Elementary Education, a BA in Art Therapy, and certifications in Life Coaching, Home Staging, and Color Analysis. She has a passion for all things creative. She and her husband have a blended family with 3 daughters and a son in law.
As a certified life coach, Lisa specializes in burnout recovery for teachers who want to reduce stress, work less hours, reignite their passion, repair damaged relationships and learn to have fun again.
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Dating After Becoming Full Grown with Samara Stone
My guest on the podcast this week is Samara Stone.
In this episode, Samara shares her divorce and remarriage story. She shares her not-so-typical divorce story which was peaceful and without anger or bitterness. In her forties, Samara began to go through the process of being fully grown and knowing what she wanted and this led her to connecting with the right man for her.
You’ll walk away from this episode knowing that it is within your capacity to change your life.
Prepare to be thoroughly inspired by this episode as you hear Samara's story.
What You’ll Learn:
How Samara had been “moving through the motions” in her marriage.
The expectation that Samara had in her mind that she had to take care of everything and how there was no balance in that.
When and how Samara started wanting more for her life and how she considers this time to be “the fullness of growth”.
How she met her current husband and how he challenged her to grow in the direction that she wanted to.
That you can’t compartmentalize your heart.
How life became easier with her current husband and she began feeling safe with him.
The internal work that Samara did to produce the desired results by making bold changes.
How her relationship is one aspect of her full grown life.
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Samara Stone is the owner and founder of Full Grown, a lifestyle brand for grown women who are ready to imagine, create and boldly live a life of their own design. Getting her entrepreneurial start in 2005 when she opened her private mental health practice, Samara has since launched several programs [and brands] to help mental health entrepreneurs gain the clarity and confidence they need to fully embrace their expertise and build businesses that allow them to position themselves as the experts they truly are. In addition to her work as a mental health professional, she’s also had the opportunity to pour into other organizations as a consultant, speaker, coach and facilitator. Through her journey [and work] she has learned what it means to be brave, trust herself and build in such a way that is authentic to who she truly is at the core.
Today, Samara is on a mission to help middle-aged black women age boldly through community, self-discovery, and a sense of adventurous risk taking. In her free time you can catch her mothering her 3 children, traveling, enjoying new adventures and loving up on her “honey”.
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Divorce and Permission to Live the Life You Want with Jessica McKinley
My guest on the podcast this week is Jessica McKinley.
Jessica and her ex were for a while sacrificing themselves for the sake of the marriage, sacrificing their own futures and our own happiness for the sake of the success of the marriage. She shares the story of how they eventually got a divorce and how she started dating again after her divorce.
You’ll walk away from this episode inspired to have new dreams, knowing the power of doing the work and creating the results that you desire after having inner transformation.
What You’ll Learn:
How the coaching tools she had helped her to know that it was okay to go through the pain of her divorce.
The importance of developing your own autonomy.
That you're allowed to change your circumstance, if you decide you're willing to take responsibility for whatever the outcome is.
That it's your job to redirect your thoughts so that you can ground yourself in what you know is true and what you want.
Understanding boundaries versus enmeshment, having autonomy, having serenity in your life, taking care of your own stuff and your own self care.
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Jessica does what she calls a hybrid of life and business coaching. She does work with women who own businesses. She helps people organize their time, money and their mind drama.
After working with over 100 clients Jessica has narrowed down her coaching process to 4 basic Mind Management tools that help women business owners do the following:
Navigate endless options & make decisions quickly.
Recognize "overwhelm and anxiety" as optional emotions.
Use their thoughts and emotions as fuel for their business.
Create an action plan & follow through on it.
Jessica is also a Podcaster. She is the host of Sincerely, Future You Podcast, a Podcast about building your future from your future.
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Dating After Ending Victim Thoughts with Dawn Ziegerer
My guest on the podcast this week is Dawn Ziegerer.
In this episode, Dawn shares the story of going through two divorces. She shares the story of dealing with resentment and victim thoughts and how she finally started taking responsibility for her actions.
You’ll walk away from this episode understanding the importance of letting go of resentment and victim thoughts.
What You’ll Learn:
How she stopped focusing her mind on the man that broke her heart and caused her a heart attack and how she took full responsibility for her actions.
The red flags that she saw in her second husband but willfully ignored.
How being resentful about staying at home in her first marriage came out through my actions to my children and the step she took to apologize to her children.
How she learnt to stop being ashamed of wanting a partner.
That you can own your life, your space, your time, your experience, and believe that it's all within your control.
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Dawn Ziegerer is the twice-divorced coach who found long-lasting love after trolling through the depths of relationship hell. She had such great success recreating her life, that it’s her vocation to help other women do the same. We often look to the past with regret and wish we would’ve done things differently. Well, now you can! Everyone who’s been divorced or suffered through a bad breakup deserves a do-over. So it’s time to claim yours. Dawn's a certified life coach, mother-of-five (3 of my own and 2 extra kids), and former on-air personality. She got her M.A. at Penn State in advertising.
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Forgiveness and Healing After Having an Affair with Jen Frey
My guest on the podcast this week is Jen Frey.
In this episode, Jen shares the story of dealing with the shame of having an affair and how this affected her in her second marriage. She shares how she overcame the shame through coaching as she began to take responsibility from a neutral position.
Jen also shares the story of how she met her second husband and how she has managed her blended family.
You’ll walk away from this episode believing that you can heal and grow even after having an affair as you take responsibility and learn you can be loved.
Prepare to be thoroughly inspired by this episode.
What You’ll Learn:
Jen’s story about the guilt that she carried into her second marriage and how she finally reached a place where she could fully receive love.
Jen’s realization that the guilt of infidelity was not useful to carry into her next relationship, or with her kids, friendships or work.
How Jen was able to heal and take responsibility from a place of neutrality and the role that coaching played in this process.
The difference between guilt and shame and how to separate the two.
Some of the new thoughts that Jen has around the fact that she had an affair.
The new thoughts that Jen’s clients adopt as they move through the process of healing and as they grow and take responsibility.
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Jen Frey is a Life and Infidelity Coach. Jen loves helping women who are carrying the secret of infidelity move from feeling shame and regret about their past to forgiving themselves and finding connection. She is a recovering perfectionist who believes life is much more fun and joyful now that she takes herself less seriously.
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Stop Dating For Potential with Claudia Germeshausen
My guest on the podcast this week is Claudia Germeshausen.
In this episode, Claudia talks about the importance of not dating for potential, sharing the example of her previous marriage and what she did differently when she started dating again.
You’ll walk away from this episode believing that you're deserving, you're worthy and that you deserve to have an amazing experience.
Prepare to be highly inspired by this episode.
What You’ll Learn:
What Claudia thinks about how not having a lot of examples of a good relationship can end up in you repeating what you've witnessed.
The importance of maturity and even education around what a healthy relationship looks like before entering a marriage.
How Claudia saw her second partner for who he was right in that moment and not for what she believed he had the potential to become and how that was the right decision.
That it is important not to be with someone who creates anxiety or lack of safety in the relationship.
Why it is so important to date a man based on who he is and not based on who you think he will potentially become.
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Claudia is a career + life coach. She helps women up-level their careers by preparing them for a significant role change, whether it be within their current organization or an external opportunity. She loves helping people get new jobs they love! She has a sweet spot in her heart for working moms who believe that they can't pursue their career ambitions because of the mom guilt that comes from having a passion that's outside of their role as a mother.
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Sex and Dating After Divorce with Amanda Louder
My guest on the podcast this week is Amanda Louder.
In today’s episode, Amanda shares her divorce and remarriage story, how she came out of an emotionally abusive marriage and how she met her current husband six weeks after her divorce was final.
Amanda shares her expertise on sex and dating as a Conservative Christian.
You’ll walk away from this episode with a clearer understanding on sex and dating. This episode is highly insightful whether you are a Christian or a non Christian.
What You’ll Learn:
About Amanda’s experience in her first marriage and how she became a shell of a person.
What emotional safety feels like with a good man from Amanda’s experience with her second husband.
The importance of having an openness to create connection in order to find the right man.
The importance of understanding your values and belief systems and where they come from.
Good questions you can ask to investigate your value system.
How Amanda helps her clients figure out what they are believing about sex, about themselves, and about their husbands.
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Amanda Louder is a Certified Life Coach, and is currently working on a Sex, Love, and Relationship Coaching certification as well. Amanda has been married to her husband Kevin since 2012 and they have a beautiful life together. She is a step-mom to his two daughters, and their five children are now ages 13-22.
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Dating After Grief with Gigi Muth
My guest on the podcast this week is Gigi Muth.
In this episode, Gigi opens up and shares the story of her divorce after a tragic incident in her family. She shares the story of the death of her daughter and her subsequent divorce. She explains her journey to overcoming perfectionism and how she was able to start dating again.
You’ll walk away from this episode believing that you are 100% worthy as you overcome perfectionism and learn to love yourself even before dating again.
What You’ll Learn:
The process of dating again after going through loss.
How she learnt to love herself.
How she learnt to be a team player in her second marriage and beat perfectionism.
How she owned up to her mistakes in her previous marriage and what she did differently in her second marriage.
Putting together and noting your milestones.
How she learnt not to compare her first marriage with her second marriage.
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Gigi Muth is a life coach for perfectionists and those who like to live perfect, look perfect and act perfect.
Gigi was once a perfectionist herself, but when she lost her dream job and then two years later her beautiful 19 year old daughter to suicide, she was awakened. She realized that perfectionism did not serve her well and that she had missed so much running on the “Never Enough” wheel.
She now coaches perfectionists to help them realize that they are enough so that they can avoid blame, judgment and shame.
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Dating After Healing Childhood Trauma with Cassandra Solano
My guest on the podcast this week is Cassandra Solano.
In this episode, Cassandra shares about the emotional and psychological abuse that she faced in her first marriage and the impact this had on her. She explains how she began to see its impact on her dating decisions. She shares how she was able to overcome this.
She tells the story of how she met her current husband.
You'll walk away from this episode with a better understanding of the impact of childhood trauma and how to heal from it in order to avoid making relationship mistakes.
What You’ll Learn:
How she was able to identify childhood trauma.
The impact that childhood trauma can have on relationship decisions.
How she went through the healing stage and began to trust herself.
The importance of having your questions answered when you’re in a relationship.
Knowing the difference between being pursued, being wanted being prioritized, and being loved bombed in a relationship.
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You will get an assessment of where you are, what’s been in your way, and what you need to do to achieve everything you want. Click here to sign up for the consultation call.
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Cassandra Solano helps overwhelmed and burnt out women. She also helps people who are single or unhappy in their relationships find the love they want with psychological intervention + spiritual healing. She helps women prioritize themselves and their self care so they can have the relationships, the careers and the energy that they want, all within the framework of addressing and dismantling oppressive systems that impact them.
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